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Strange chatting to blokes professing to be gurlz........how effin desperate...............


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:34 pm
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Ok who is Pete? Did I mention I only got two hours sleep? I'm getting confused now!


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:35 pm
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Are you suggesting I'm a man posting as a woman? Hmm there are several parts of my anatomy that would prove I'm definitely a woman but as I mentioned before, they will not be getting posted on here!


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:39 pm
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Edit : though I imagine he dressed-up like the first avatar pic I posted when he was in-character on the forum.

urgghhhh! but funny


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:40 pm
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Wheelie: this the normal chaos where people who know each other go off on tangents about threads lost before the great hack or back in the gofar days.

You were right to suspect but too trusting I think. It's human nature to want to trust people you care for in it!? You can do better though.


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:50 pm
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now you have to explain the great hack to the poor lass...


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:53 pm
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That pic of IJ.......hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......niiiiiiiiice.

😉


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:53 pm
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I know I'm too trusting and no doubt I'll do it again, I don't want to loose my faith in people or love.


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:54 pm
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Its ok the great hack I am aware of!


 
Posted : 28/03/2013 11:55 pm
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I had an overseas girlfriend move here to live with me many moons ago. When she got here I realised that the brief but passionate affair I'd just ended with an employee was actually who I REALLY wanted to be with.

To cut a long story short, my new 'affair' g/f eventually moved abroad, I suffered a nervous breakdown partly as a result, and the dumped ex. married a hunky fireman back in her own country and lived happily ever after. She still phones a few times a year...you girls can be an odd lot sometimes.

See, what goes around comes around.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:10 am
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These things happen for a reason. One of my ex's moved to Australia many years ago for 6 months to help her mum settle down there and we planned for me to go out for a month and have 2 weeks at her mums then spend 2 weeks travelling round. I worked my arse off for 2 months saving up doing stupid amounts of overtime. Got it all saved up, holiday sorted etc. Flew out (my 1st time ever on a plane) to Sydney-Melbourne-Tasmania only to get dumped after 2 days.
Need less to say the plans we'd made went right out of the window. I thought about flying back asap but decided to just get on with it. Ended up meeting some great people (1 I still ride with now as he moved to London) and had a ball. I also ended up meeting some guys who worked in the same line as me. Cut a long story short...got a message off them about 6 months later asking me if I fancied going out to work for 6 months. Had the best time ever..
I guess what I'm trying to say is - make the most of it, what ever you decide to do. If you can stay there for a while, do it, enjoy it and see what happens 🙂


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:12 am
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I'd like to stay here for a while, I have a job so not stuck on the money side of things, and I've made some fantastic friends here already, so yeh see what happens I guess.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:20 am
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I love Adelaide so if I was you I'd hang around there and find a nice Aussie guy to keep you going.

No point coming back to grey old Britain! Just enjoy singledom.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:27 am
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I actually love it here too, but might give the men a miss for a bit, back to good old lonely singledom it is.

What sucks about all this right now is that my ex was the person who has been there for me for the last 7 years and was the one I would always turn to in times of need and now I can't do that, I'm not sure i have ever been this let down by one person in my life, even when I split from my husband it didn't hurt this much.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:41 am
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Right op. Now the time wasters have gone, I've lit the candles, run the bath, poured the wine and warmed up the massage oil. I'll even remove my smoking jacket and slippers for your visual pleasure.

When will you be round, just so I know like...?


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:49 am
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Ahh those were the days India Jane & Wee-Pete it was like Car Crash Forum every night on BM along with Dylan & his latest "Brain Farts"


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:56 am
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Kryton57 sounds like you have got it sorted!!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:57 am
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Or you could nip round here. We'll watch the rugby, get spannered on cheap lager and light farts.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 1:33 am
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Wheelie- have you any Irish in you?

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The ex was part Irish, so no not anymore!

That buggered your punchline kendo!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 1:35 am
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Textbook case of getting back together in the end and again would still split up for good. Not meant to be harsh.. Just ride the waves you will be fine .. As most cases of the heart only time can heal and tell...

...and i agree with you, some people are better off alone..some of us learned this in a hard way 😉


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 1:47 am
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Sorry STW - WG, spent the night at mine, clearly up to no good on the internet.

I can confirm that picture is a fair likeness. A little photo-shopped but almost right.

She's been fed Cider to cheer her up. So nothing to worry about.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 3:21 am
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Kryton57 sounds like you have got it sorted!!

His missus will have him sorted if she sees that post.......


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 3:43 am
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I remember you asking for advice prior to coming over. Hope the visa is solid and for you not joint. Plenty to enjoy over here whatever you decide to do, it's a great country to explore. In the end things happen for a reason (though we never find out which one)

Hope things turn out OK.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 3:58 am
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Look after her 2hottie!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 4:30 am
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Thanks mikewsmith visa is just a working holiday one so will see what happens I guess got till October if I want, and there is still loads I'd like to do here!

Zokes they are doing a great job!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 6:19 am
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If you get a decent job you can go into year 2 of a working holiday. It's also easier to get a visa out here than back in the UK. If you have the skills maybe look at the application now and see how it goes.

Failing that enjoy riding in winter 🙂


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 7:17 am
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Unfortunately I'm now too old to get the second work holiday visa, or I will be by the time I need to apply. Not sure how the whole immigration thing works, got a bit of time to think what I want to do tho, and I'm looking forward to some winter riding that isn't full of mud, rain and frozen limbs! 🙂


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 8:06 am
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Scapegoat - was worth a go lol


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 8:20 am
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just check the 2nd year working hol thing as I'm not sure how it works when you already have one. Whats your work?


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 11:24 am
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@wheelie, sorry to hear your story but from your thumbnail sketch of yourself, your attitude and humour displayed on here and the fact you in an amazing country waiting to be explored (forget the visa issues just hang out for a while) would say to me you have a massive amount going for you and to look forward to. Move onwards and upwards.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 11:44 am
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Thank you jambalaya, that's very sweet of you!
Mike, I'm an antique restorer, and that's what I'm working as three days a week at the mo, was planning to go to immigration and ask them what my options are.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:01 pm
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I'm an antique restorer

haha that would come in handy if you were to take up any of the offers posted over the last 5 pages!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:09 pm
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Sounds niche enough get a nice employer to sponsor you then all you need is something to restore out here. We have a 5 year old ikea table....

Any good with wood though? Uni tas is desperate for students on its furniture design course probably comes with a visa


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:14 pm
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Hallz lol!

Wood is my speciality, also have 3years of cabinet making under my belt, upholstery too.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:17 pm
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Could sponsor a chair refit once the cats grow up...


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:19 pm
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Ahh thanks, chairs no probs!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:26 pm
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WG, did you used to work in Nettlebed??


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:28 pm
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Awesome I reckon the cooking fat will mature in about 10 years. Mean time just go nomad and work for cash. Like the a team of furniture restoration.

Seriously though if you can get cash and transport you can loose 6 months just hitting bike trails in sa vic nsw act & tas


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:31 pm
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Podium, never worked in nettlebed, not even sure where that is!!

Mike, now your talking a team restoration it is! Or bugger off and ride hmm liking option two just as much!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 12:39 pm
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WG - "my speciality is wood!!! " OMG..... Best comment yet!!!!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 1:23 pm
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Sounds bad as others have said, no point in being in a loveless relationship. He might have just got confused about things.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 1:50 pm
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He is a very confused man that's for sure! Anyway like you say no point, time for me to get on with having some fun!!


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 2:01 pm
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Pete is a short-arse tarmacer from NI who is the life and soul of a forum till he has a few drinks, then he gets banned and comes back as someone else. You there Pete?

How can you be a drug addict and not lie? It's illegal, socially unacceptable to many and addicts live in denial. The man has issues and you're perhaps wise to get out, however, "I hope this hurts him more" - I hope you don't. Don't look back in anger, look forward to the rest of your life.

tHE most obvious suggestion based on your posts so far would probably get me banned but as it's so obvious the ban would be pointless. Just read back, you next move is obvious.


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 2:15 pm
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There. Is. A. Girl. On. Singletrack. 😯

BTW - that Hitler-as-singletrack thing is about the funniest thing I've ever seen. Glad no one is at work today, they'd think I was mental with all the cackling.

Anyways.. rather amazing the OP actually seems half-passable. AND she like Yetis - which is more important.

See how I have such a way with the laydeez 8)

(And why have been single for-ever-and-ever-and-ever. But am also probably half-passable myself 😉 However, lacking any ability whatsoever to 'woo')

Incidentally, this reminds me of a joke I made up:

'Why do owls not date when it's raining?'
'Because it's too-wet-to-woo'

...gedit! 😛


 
Posted : 29/03/2013 2:41 pm
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Half passable!! Cheeky!! Tho I did like the joke!


 
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