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@aracer date nights are important, I would try and restart that if you can
Absolutely 100% spot on. Give that man a cigar
More counselling, or a tissue, would be better.
Families eh?
Well my wife has gone from frothing to talking.
We've stayed together because of debt. And I'd become accustomed to a sexless marriage and sleeping in the box room, no doubt about that.
On top of that physically we went separate ways seven years ago. I kept fit and well groomed and kept my friends. My wife gave up on everything.
At no point was I looking for an affair. But a lovely eight years younger than me lady asked me to take her to a dance, I did and the rest is history.
Kids are 20 and 23. After the mortgage we have about 200k to split
No physical contact over that period. She will not talk about it, go on a date, or go to counseling. No fighting, and we can talk about life, kids etc, but just no connection.
I can't remember when she last said "I love you". No cards at birthdays etc, no matter what I do like giving cards and trying.
Spooky, shred, are you sure you're not me?
I know, I have seen your posts on this on previous threads and thought the same thing. 😕
Guys your life is just too important to go on like this.