She will not stop until things get bad enough, until she reaches rock bottom.
If you really want to help her…..
Stop enabling her to behave the way she is, cut the support, the worse it gets the easier it will be for you to direct her to AA…..
You cannot help her because you don’t understand the problem unless you have lived it.
Those in AA can, if she wants it.
Al-anon will help those around her if they want to understand it
But be prepared for her life to get worse and she will die before her time if she doesnt do anything about it
Don’t ever forget……”alcoholism is a disease that kills people that haven’t got it” 🙄
I speak from personal experience.