Be honest. Thats what mates are about. Having had a couple of these myself……… Its about people and not places.
First was in the days before they became events. Pub with mates and they’re still with me even though she isn’t.
The second was eight years ago and I was so scared that they and other mates would do I organised it myself. Told them what to bring and that everything else was covered. Passport and £100. We went to Boulogne to collect beer. Stayed in crap hotel and had a meal that cost more than everything else put together. People still talk about it including me drinking champagne from another custumers shoe. Tasted brilliant!
My best man wasn’t there! He was 16 at the time. We went to the pub and he (my son) carried me home.
All these have been great and its because of who was with me. If anybody can’t be there, if you value them, you will do something to include them one way or another.
Had some rich friends who got married last summer. £100k wedding!!!! Various things organised from Portugal and New York to the local pub. Nobody was made to feel poor or out of place cause they hadn’t been to one bit and not another. I was out of work at the time.