Had a long chat tonight about it. Seems there are a few issues here, mainly to do with knowing how long a ride will take.
Apparently she is pissed off because I tell her one time I'll be back then come back later. Where I tell her I'll only be out for a couple of hours thinking she will stop me riding if I say it'll be x hours rather than x-2 hours. That'll be easy to sort out.
The other thing is she wants me to organise things to do with the kids and rather than just being there and running things, she wants me to arrange outings and things with the kids when I'm not riding.
Crazy – been with her for 15 years and sometimes its so easy to forget that just discussing things openly and honestly is the best way to resolve things.
She wants to come to some agreement. She's suggested I have two weekends a month where I bike ALL weekend then two where I spend it with the family. I'm thinking that may be too much so going to discuss alternatives.
Strange how things turn out.
EDIT – Sorry english really bad after a few pints 🙂