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Tom from fully earthed has been good.He was effecient and honest.Posted 3 months ago | Go to post
This is markoulinis wife. This sounds similar to our situation (although perhaps not to the same degree). In my case feelings of frustration towards my OH usually are just projections of feelings of frustration about myself. I am feeling frustrated, angry with myself and my situation and this comes out badly to the ones closest to me. Offers of ‘quick fixes/solutions’ to my problem, like find a new hobby, also infuriate me because they usually mean ‘your attitude causes ME a problem. You need to get a grip asap because I am affected by this negativity and I don’t like it’. In other words, it’s as if you’re saying ‘it’s all about ME!’
Instead of offering ‘solutions’, which she is already aware of herself, my advice would be to preoccupy yourself with understanding why she feels angry/frustrated/ worried. Have many discussions and really listen to her. But not just that, because don’t expect that you will ask once and she will just be happy and willing to spill her most inner and scary thoughts. Really<span style=”font-size: 0.8rem;”> try to understand what’s troubling her. Sometimes even vocalising your worries can be a scary thought because you are also trying to hide them from your own self. So talking about them to someone else is difficult. If and when she will talk to you, just listen and try to empathise and understand. Don’t jump into trying to solve her problems! (See previous point). </span>
Sorry for the essay and i hope this helpsPosted 1 year ago | Go to post
Reply to: Blade Runner 2049
Just back from the cinema and disappointed. Too obvious about K’s identify and the whole one eyed lady wasn’t needed. The soundtrack was !!!! in comparison. The use of snow as opposed to rain in the original was a poor attempt to grab something I can’t quite verbalise at 1am.Posted 2 years ago | Go to post
Reply to: Panic attacks and dealing with them
I suffered from panic attacks (>50) over the past 15 years.
Learning to recognize the signs (irrational thoughts, etc) really helps you prepare rather than panic.
When your breathing is going crazy you need to belly breathe and walk around do not bend over!
I never went to a Doctor as i’m stupid but I did eventually learn to deal with my social anxiety by understanding how the thoughts I have about myself are not reflected by others around me and hence I have nothing to worry about.
Surprisingly I’m the mental health awareness guy at work, below are a bunch of really useful contactsPosted 2 years ago | Go to post
Will have a look at work. If the ice have an e-copy then I should have access.
MarkPosted 3 years ago | Go to post
If you want a 700c tandem frame I have a bargain one (its big suits two people both about 5’11 upwards) for £50 collected in Bath.Posted 4 years ago | Go to post
Congratulations, give him a big hug from everyone.Posted 6 years ago | Go to post
Grapes of Wrath, filled my tiny mind with sadness and made me doubt the future in our wealth drive world. Exactly what any 18 yr old should read.
or for something more enlightening
The Tao of pooh and the te’ of piglet blew my already tattered mind with Chinese philosophy presented by a hunny eating happy go lucky fella and his world doubting short quiet friend.Posted 6 years ago | Go to post
Cheers for the advice, some k24 in white are on their way to me now!Posted 8 years ago | Go to post
hopefully less than £150 a set (F&R). I cannot find the K24 but have seen K18’s at 140 a set .Posted 8 years ago | Go to post
Put on a steeper stem, or get one of those relieving saddles..either way take the weight off your johnson.Posted 8 years ago | Go to post
Reply to: Darkside!!! Planet X wheels
i have had nothing but **** from my planet x hub, light it might be but torsion rigidity or build quality (joytech!) it lacked! probably the Alu axle. A waste of money, it is now a pepper pot and so much more a joy to use!
Buy a 105 !Posted 8 years ago | Go to post