Yet more online dating . . . tinder?!
I’m with emsz – I think it would be fair to say I like men and sex but what passes as dating these days is enough to put me off completely.
Edit just reread that – what I meant is by making dating predominantly about the quick shag it makes the whole online dating thing seem sordid (and I know it works for some but that is merely my perception)Posted 4 years agorogerthecatMember
Thanks AW, I was blissfully unaware of Tinder, Grindr and Blendr until reading this thread. I have never been more relieved to be well out of the dating game!
A view reinforced by the experiences of a colleague who shared her experiences with us, and that was on the regular dating sites. She’s now happy in a relationship with an old friend.
Good luck to all you singles seeking soulmates.Posted 4 years agoJunkyardMember
If folk want to have casual sex with complete strangers why would anyone else really care?Posted 4 years ago
IMHO [ as it is not for me] its a sad sign of modern life/society that many are more comfortable bumping bits than bumping minds souls or emotions
Still whatever gets them through the night its their choice not mine.
I wont be joining and I have no need though.
it seems like a suprising number of dating sites are used mainly for precuring a quick shag – so not really a small pocket of people
That. Not wishing to be all prudish, there is a place in everyone’s life for random knee tremblers; but scouring the internet to procure them is wrong.
It’s a moral race to the bottom, so to speak.Posted 4 years agorogerthecatMember
Thats fair enough but it seems like a suprising number of dating sites are used mainly for precuring a quick shag – so not really a small pocket of people
From my colleagues experience I’d concur. And, reading the opening gambits or replies from the blokes, a refined dialogue is not required. It seems that the most direct offer/request and detailed description is the preferred approach. 😯Posted 4 years agopiemonsterMember
Dunno why I thought this was relevant. 😉
My date tells me she blocks most people who send her sleazy messages and only dates people who can spell. A good maxim for life in generalmrlebowskiMember
but scouring the internet to procure them is wrong.
Do you/do you know someone whose gone on line to find a riding partner?
Just because someone has done the same looking for sex somehow makes it unwholesome?
T inter web is just another social medium (this place after all is nothing more than a substitute for the pub!) – stop being so prissy & moralistic…this aint the age of Queen Victoria!
(When & lets be honest it was was all going on behind closed doors anyway..)
Honestly, this thread reads like a page from the Daily Wail crying over the failure of society to uphold honest & decent moral values…. 🙄
Nobody is getting hurt!Posted 4 years ago
(Hopefully, & at least not without consent…)
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