I spent a hundred miles on a bike with a GX Eagle cassette earlier this year – I normally run SLX. Compared to the Shimano set up the GX shifted like a dog. Much slower shifts, and significantly worse when shifting under power. My Shimano cassette is lasting wonderfully too compared to their shoddy old 11 speed ones.
I think that’s a setup issue tbh. Both my XT and GX shift pretty similarly. If anything the gx is a lighter shift action on the shifter vs a harder to push downshift lever on the XT setup. I think that’s related to the rear mech clutch rather than resistance in the shifter.
I’ve ridden a Shimano drivetrain that wasn’t well setup and it wasn’t fun. Also ridden an X01 setup on a demo bike that was all over the place.
Comparing apples with apples I don’t think there’s much difference.