Since my Dad died 7 years ago, my Mum has become permanently worried as there is no-one else to discuss things with at home. Noise from the central heating, telly on the blink, odd looking emails. You name it it’s a potential disaster.
Dad did all the driving when they went anywhere together. It’s about 5 miles from my place to hers- now it’s got darker she doesn’t like to be over ours too late.
Mum and Dad used to go to see my sister & her family 3-4 times a year and Mum has gone on her own before Dad died. Now it’s a major hassle (*) she’ll go maybe once a year.
*Though she has made a few coach trips to Devon to see her sister necessitating a train to London then the coach. This she’ll do at the drop of a hat.
She also worries for other people, like when my nephew popped down to see her the other week from from Grimsby (to Kent).
He’s 24, over 6ft tall, for through 4 years of university and work placements on his own so should be able to cope!
Don’t want to make light of people with serious issues, but I think some people are prone to it and for others it’s circumstances especially if they are on their own and don’t have someone to discuss things with.