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  • Women’s forum? We want your feedback
  • aracer
    Free Member

    What I want to know is why is this thread in the bike forum, when it’s quite clearly OT?

    crazy-legs
    Full Member

    I think the charm of ST (and probably one of the reasons why it’s so busy) is the lack of splits – every other forum seems to have separate places for Rides/Kit/Chat/DH/XC/UK riding/foreign riding, it can be a right mess. ST works so well because it’s open, mixed and (generally) fairly self-policing and sensible.
    Separate Bike and Off-Topic forums are fine, splits beyond that I think are ultimately self-defeating.

    My 2p.

    jonb
    Free Member

    We’ve got one for the roadies haven’t we look up there on the right >>>^^^^^.

    I assume there would be a strict moderation policy otherwise it’ll just be all the regulars anyway.

    Will it get enough traffic to get the Q’s answered? The good thing about this one is the huge number of people to get a response out of.

    druidh
    Free Member

    I can’t believe this is even being considered. I think the person most guilty of sexual discrimination on this forum is Mark for even putting the idea forward.

    And how do all these “sensitive, female types” manage out in the real world?

    sodafarls
    Free Member

    Not a good idea imo. It’s just words on a screen, it’s not like people are physically shouting in each others faces while brandishing huge phallus (phalli?) as weapons…

    aracer
    Free Member

    Just go onto most forums about cars/movies/music/sports/politics….any of the subjects that most forums are about and I’d imagine you’d be pretty shocked.

    But the point isn’t that there are worse forums – I’m quite happy to accept that – the point is that there are also far better ones. My personal laddish threshold means I don’t actually visit any of those you mention above – that and I’m just not that interested in such general interest subjects, I get my fill of such things on here.

    trailmonkey
    Full Member

    Mark – Administrator

    I don’t think we’d want to exclude anyone from any forums.. If we did have a women’s forum it would have to be open to all.

    I remember a link from here to a womens oriented cycle website. It could have been shecycles, I can’t quite remember. Anyhow, as I recall it, there was a really aggressive attitude displayed by quite a few of the female posters, (I won’t name and shame but I recognised one of the names as a poster from here)in reaction to the fact that there were blokes visiting the site. I think it’s inevitable that a womens specific site will encourage and attract exclusive attitudes and resultant bad feeling.

    From a business POV, for any potential advertisers with gender specific products to sell, it could be quite appealing.

    GNARGNAR
    Free Member

    aracer –

    But the point isn’t that there are worse forums – I’m quite happy to accept that – the point is that there are also far better ones. My personal laddish threshold means I don’t actually visit any of those you mention above – that and I’m just not that interested in such general interest subjects, I get my fill of such things on here.

    And my point is – there aren’t actually that many cleaner/more self moderated forums out there. This is about as mild as it gets where a group of generally speaking, men, congregate on t’internet. Obviously you’re sensitivities are different from mine. I wouldnt want any forum I frequent to descend into 4chan but there is little danger if any of that ever happening here. I dont have a problem with the banter on here and believe it or not I am a well adjusted member of society. Your idea of far better is probably my idea of dull or sterile, and I’m probably not alone. Now enough off topic ramblings…..what about….the laydeeeez.

    aracer
    Free Member

    OK maybe I was being pedantic – I accept this is one of the tamer and more civilized forums, but it’s far from being the superlative, and the other ones I’m thinking of are also dominated by men. The difference I suspect is in the age profile. Not that I have a problem with here (even contribute on occasions), it’s just that I can understand how it could be intimidating, and it could certainly be less so.

    TheSponsor
    Free Member

    As a woman I wouldn’t use a women only section as I’m interested in the opinion of people irrespective of gender.

    Personally, if I had an issue that was so sensitive I didn’t want men to comment I wouldn’t be posting it on a public forum in the first place.

    As to whether contributions to this site are too “blokey”, crude or insensitive, if I start reading a post on here that I don’t like I stop reading. It’s an amazingly effective method of protecting my delicate sensibilities…

    rs
    Free Member

    well said TheSponsor!

    Mark
    Full Member

    lol at druidh 🙂

    You suggesting that women are being overly sensitive is like a hungry shark saying, ‘come on in the water is lovely and I don’t bite’ 🙂

    I may be the one voicing this but it is a discussion we have had at ‘Singletrack’ and this is a genuine discussion of the seemingly real issue that there are proportionately more women lurkers than men. For some reason this forum, and maybe it’s the whole site, is not attracting the interaction of as many women as it should. For example.. our Facebook page breaks down into 90% male 10% female. If that proportion reflected the gender bias on this site then then 10% of all posts should be from women on here. It’s a very long way from that. So the discussion here is to address that ‘issue’. Is it an issue? Is a women’s specific forum a way to address this problem? is it a problem?

    We are aware that mountain biking is a theoretically asexual sport/activity that is heavily biased towards men. It’s an issue that needs to be discussed we think. We’ve tried to make the mag as gender inclusive as possible.. Covering women’s specific kit/bikes.. stories featuring women.. written by women.. It’s hard to get the right balance of course. The great thing about the website though is we can include you lot in the discussion. So opening up the issue a bit wider than just the idea of a women’s forum.. is there anything we should be doing to make the site in general a more gender inclusive place? The ethos of the forum has been mentioned a few times.. The issues around laddish behavior etc. Thoughts?

    rs
    Free Member

    I really don’t see what more you need to do, maybe you could have a dedicated couple of pages in the mag for womens stuff, a dedicated section in the reviews section for womens stuff. File the womans forum idea in the bin though. You’ll be changing the green on the website to pink next 🙄

    cinnamon_girl
    Full Member

    Definitely DON’T want a women’s only forum! Yes, this place can be quite intimidating until you get used to it but I’ve always thought of myself as a mountain biker first.

    The banter can be fun, you don’t have to reply, sometimes it’s best to ignore some stuff although I do feel that some posts can be quite offensive although not specifically to women. We can definitely do without the explicit remarks. A thick skin is a definite advantage!

    I will happily ask for advice, even non-mtb related stuff, and will happily offer my comments/experiences if I feel it’s worth posting up.

    I used to be an active member of SheCycles, organised some SheCycles girlie rides at Swinley Forest AND had to deal with the flak on here, not mentioning any names naturally but it’s easy to guess 😉

    As regards Facebook, I just don’t have time or the inclination for that stuff.

    I have always found the mag to be very pro-women and not patronising in the least, part of the reason why I subscribe.

    Frankly, let’s just forget about this PC crap and “inclusive” nonsense and talk bikes 😀

    druidh
    Free Member

    Mark – Administrator

    our Facebook page breaks down into 90% male 10% female. If that proportion reflected the gender bias on this site then then 10% of all posts should be from women on here.

    I suspect that the proportion of male: female facebook users does not reflect society – i.e. there’ll be proportionately more females on Facebook

    A quick Google found this:

    Facebook Member Stats – An Update

    retro83
    Free Member

    The fact that so much different content is bundled together on the front page of the forum is what makes STW’s forum so great. Please don’t turn it into MTBR (no offense to members!)

    CountZero
    Full Member

    My twopenne’th, I think thesponsor talks a lot of sense. I use the same principle, I look at a thread, if I see nothing there of interest, I go elsewhere. Sometimes opinions are expressed which I disagree strongly with, in which case I either put my own point, or, again sod off elsewhere. It’s the tv principle, if you don’t like what’s on, change channel. If there is a women’s forum, I’ll probably spend as much time on there, because there are likely to be as many interesting topics. I’ll happily browse through a women’s magazine just out of interest. I’m not gay or owt. ;0)
    Many of the women on here are more than capable of standing up for themselves, and the cutting ripost works as well from either gender, after all, it’s never going to be a nose-to-nose confrontation.

    Anna-B
    Free Member

    I appreciate that STW are thinking about the needs of women, but I also think that it’s not necessary to have a separate forum. Didn’t someone say recently as well that the shecycles forum had tumble weed rolling around it (before it closed!)

    I agree with other posters that it’s the bike related knowledge (sometimes!) that is handy on here and that can come from either sex. Also, is being a member of and posting on a forum a bit of a male dominated past-time anyway? That might explain the Facebook friends/forum posts discrepancy. I’m not sure about that – I only post on two and the other non bike one is male dominated as well, so maybe my perception is skewed.

    Having said that, it was nice to read that thread recently and discover that there are quite a lot of women on here.

    aleigh
    Free Member

    I don’t think there’s a need to have a womens forum. I’ve posted on here before now asking for women bike related advice and had some useful replies, even from the blokes!

    Just keep it as is 🙂

    richpips
    Free Member

    Didn’t someone say recently as well that the shecycles forum had tumble weed rolling around it (before it closed!)

    Exactly what I was going to say. A women’s only forum that didn’t attract many people that didn’t post on here or BM already.

    clareymorris
    Full Member

    First of all can I just say that’s it is really thoughfull of you guys to put this idea forward, but really I can’t think of aything worse. Well, i can but I’m not going to repeat it in front of the sensitive lads 😉

    brant
    Free Member

    If a dedicated women only site wouldn’t work, with lots of money and enthusiasm thrown at it, I can’t for the life of me see why a sectioned forum area on this site would. But hey, whatever. I don’t think it’d be a BAD thing to try, but just a bit silly.

    Though it’s a position I’ve been lambasted for in in the past, my experience is that women don’t ride bikes – they’re wives or girlfriends dragged along.

    Of course, like every ridiculously hyperbolic statement, there are exceptions, but I really don’t think I’m too wide of the mark (there’s a pun) saying that.

    Tell you what would work, and be inclusive for the females… a “Singletrack Widows” section, for all the partners I know who’ve got their own laptop and sit twittering themselves to a frenzy when hubby is going all Slow Reeezzaaaay on them.

    MountainMonkey
    Free Member

    I’m a woman and I really like STW. Took me a while to post, but now I don’t think twice. Yes, you get the odd dodgy remark, but to be fair one of the other guys will nearly always come to the rescue.

    On the whole, the guys on here are really cool and I really appreciate their advice. It is extra cool when I more experienced woman can give some advice – but that’s more because it’s a novelty than anything else. I wouldn’t else a women’s only site. Yes, here can be a bit laddish, but I have two older brothers and a husband – seriously, I can cope!

    Great site btw guys!

    RudeBoy
    Free Member

    Well, i can but I’m not going to repeat it in front of the sensitive lads

    (Covers ears, in fear of Clarey ‘Potty Mouth’ Morris…) 😳

    BillOddie
    Full Member

    Do women ride bike differently to men then?

    Side saddle or something?

    If we have a women’s forum can we have one for Stoats as well?

    RudeBoy
    Free Member

    Stoats? What about Ferrets? Weasels? Pine Martens?

    Eh? Eh?

    Ferretist….

    TheSponsor
    Free Member

    Though it’s a position I’ve been lambasted for in in the past, my experience is that women don’t ride bikes – they’re wives or girlfriends dragged along.

    Of course, like every ridiculously hyperbolic statement, there are exceptions, but I really don’t think I’m too wide of the mark (there’s a pun) saying that.

    My brain’s too tired for an articulate lambast so I’ll have to settle for a “bo!!ocks”.

    MrNutt
    Free Member

    less kittens more cookery!

    Tracey
    Full Member

    Thought about it alot since the first post, been on here for a number of years, never been offended, like the banter, why change a good thing, my vote would be to change nothing

    Tracey

    sodafarls
    Free Member

    Though it’s a position I’ve been lambasted for in in the past, my experience is that women don’t ride bikes – they’re wives or girlfriends dragged along.

    It’s statements like this that make me realise how lucky I am.

    keyses2
    Full Member

    I am one of the female ‘lurkers’, and I read more than I post mainly because I find someone has often already posted a similar thread. I’m quite happy to post aswell though. I have used bikemagic and shecycles and didnt like either of them but singletrack is much better (and friendlier) and doesnt seem so cliquey. I dont think a womens section is needed, if you need to know anything specific to women just put it in the thread title to get relevant answers.

    Drac
    Full Member

    Do women ride bike differently to men then?

    Side saddle or something?

    No but they do have a suction cup to stop them sliding off the saddle.

    PinkOrange5
    Free Member

    I think it’s a good idea. I don’t post on here that often because of some of the things I read I find offensive. Whether it would work or not is another matter. I can imagine adverse comments if a girls only ride was organised.

    Anway I’ll go back to lurking once a week, tara…

    aleigh
    Free Member

    Though it’s a position I’ve been lambasted for in in the past, my experience is that women don’t ride bikes – they’re wives or girlfriends dragged along.

    Happy to say that statement does not apply to me 😆

    keyses2
    Full Member

    Nor me aleigh, my boyfriend doesnt ride bikes he likes them to have engines ! I even build up my own bikes and do my own maintainence aswell 😀

    rs
    Free Member

    so we won’t be seeing a women’s shedfire bike then! 😆 at Drac and his suction cup.

    rs
    Free Member

    PinkOrange5, I really can’t believe there is so much on here you find offensive and that it would actually stop you posting, join in!

    jojoA1
    Free Member

    Thanks, but no thanks. Any lady who is too delicate for STW is too delicate for mountain biking IMO.

    Oh and Rudeboy, I think you’ll find that Mlehworld has quite a high female membership. SOme of them are even real.

    Oh, and Brant, I’m a biker’s girlfriend, but I rode bikes before I met him too.

    Conor
    Free Member

    I just think the men on here need to be bit more respectful towards the lasses and restrain their “laddish” sides a bit. There are abound to be loads of women reading the site but not posting as they are too intimidated. It’s fair enough the extrovert girls being able to enjoy the site, but not everybody is a confident extrovert. I’ve taken the time to be nice and helpful to the everybody (just my nature) and I’ve made a couple really, really good female friends.

    Nico
    Free Member

    My experience of another forum that had a women section was that it was pretty inactive – due to the much smaller number of women involved compared to men. Then as soon as a woman posted the men would be all over it, rather defeating the object. When the software was updated the women’s section was dropped.

    That’s just one example of course.

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