Was the QR/Disc thing a real problem for most people
Clearly not for most people, but for the small number for whom it was a problem, it was quite a big problem.
From what I recall of the stuff at the time, the forces generated under braking are potentially more than half the clamping force required by the relevant ISO standard for QRs, which specifies a force on the wheel as a whole. Obviously the force from a disc brake is going to be very much on one side, so you’re relying on the extent to which QRs exceed the ISO standard, and how they behave under loads essentially acting on just one drop out.
Decent QRs, done up properly very comfortably exceed the standard, but relying on that isn’t a great place for a safety-critical device that is operated by end users.
That said, only time I’ve ever had an issue is with a through axle which had almost completely backed itself out of its thread by the time I stopped to find out why the disc brake was rubbing quite so much!