Flowerpower – sorry to hear about your Mom.
But I don’t think we should judge anyone who falls for these things too harshly. They are sent to 1000’s of people and it works on a very small number of them.
That small number ‘fall-for-it’ simply due to circumstances being just right when they encounter the scam.
It happened to me this summer – not this scam but another type of scam. I thought about it afterwards and I could see that I was vulnerable to just the right sort of scam – and then just the right sort of scam happened and bingo!
I lost over £2k (which I’ve since recovered from the bank thank god!)
I still feel like an idiot but I can see why I did it and why, at the time, it didn’t feel wrong.