@howsyourdad1 Spoke to “legal cohabitant” about this last night and her car was pretty solid for the seven years she had it with oil changes every year. It certainly seemed to run ok.
As for the car, ultimately whatever you get is going to be a compromise. The Sharan is going to be more car, so will be easier and more comfortable to drive, but will not have the space to sleep in (unless you are 1m 60) that a van would. BUT… A van is going to be harder to use as a normal, every day vehicle and will likely mean more årsskatt because it will be a diesel.
I’ve driven a shitty T5 a a daily, one that was part converted. It had a removable second row of seats and a bed and some storage for bikes, but all of it was “either” instead of “and”. you could take passengers if you did not want to sleep. You could sleep if you did not want to take bikes, etc. That said, I loved my T5 and would have one again. They are just so useful especially if, like me, you are renovating a house. I still would prefer a double cab T3 though…