bigyinn – Member
Why give your child a name that will never be their true name. How many children these days will be called Charles, Samuel or Alexander?
Because you give them the choice.
Using the diminutive as the given name is just selfish and infantilising.
(In my opinion, of course 😀 )
Call the kid by the diminutive if you like, but give them the choice of an adults name as well as a childish one.
I see no need to burden my son with a name that is from the past.
But all the diminutive forms of the names I quoted are just as old as the full versions.
So you’re still using a ‘name that is from the past’.
I do take exception to made up or bastardised names that are chosen just to make their child’s name sound unique (and often stupid).
Well, all names are made up at some point, aren’t they?
Although there should be more children called Dave. When was the last time you heard a parent shout for Dave or David?
I’m with you on that one though. 🙂