sc-xc, just responded to your ad as I am thinking of selling mine for one of those ^^^ kickrs.
Some things to consider as I am in a very similar position to you in terms of requirements.
Might want to consider one with a wide range of resistance if you are sharing with the wife. I had an old Tacx fixed one that didn’t really go low enough to allow mrs blobby to get in an easy recovery ride (she’s only little and doesn’t put out big watts.) And I also wanted one that would allow me to do some high power low cadence stuff. The Minoura LR760 does the job for us as it’s got a very wide range of resistance, the widest I could find at the time.
Rollers are good too, I use them as complimentary to a turbo, though many do just fine with rollers alone. Easy to pop the bike on and off.
For noise, if kids are in bed, mine seems fine. A turbo tyre and a big thick mat helps with the noise. Though the big 18″ fan I use to keep cool makes a lot more noise than the turbo! I’ve also gone for some wireless headphones to cut down on the noise of telly/music.
Oh and…. Trainer Road.