Struggling to balance parental love & responsibilities with giving teenage offspring space to grow and develop…
Also struggling with the legal definitions of those aged 16-18 and what the law offers regarding levels of responsibility.
Basically, Offspring 1 is a sensible, ambitious, mature 16 YO. Good GCSEs, doing well with A levels, so far.
However, girlfriend relationship appears more serious than might have predicted. My view is that as parents, we can advise and influence, but at the end of the day, they have to choose whether to stay together or split up (latter seems unlikely right at the mo).
Mrs rkk01 doesn’t share my view and instinctively reaches for the levers of control. I just can’t see that working out well – short term or long term 🙁
Would greatly value folks’ thoughts and experiences of how best to handle…!