taken for a total mug, or just misread the signals (dating advice)
Debated this one with a mate this morning, so I thought I’d put it out there to the gauge the wisdom of the STW masses
Basically was seeing a lady for a while earlier, but she called it off as she said she viewed it as nothing more than a **** buddy arrangement. Anyhows as I quite liked the girl I thought I’d make more of an effort and invited her out on a few ‘dates’, dinner, cinema drinks etc etc.
Shes been more than happy to come along, we’ve had a good laugh, but then shes pretty much just turned round and said she thought I was just inviting her out as a mate. Not entirely sure why she thinks this, as she knows I like her. More tellingly I’ve paid for everything,dinner, drinks, taxis etc etc. Of course I don’t mind doing this if its a date, but seems a bit off to accept I pay for everything as her ‘mate’.
Is she just a chancer who needs told where to go, or am I just being tight, I’ve misread the signs, and the guy pays regardless of whether they are in a relationship? Comedy STW answers of course more than welcome….(as are donations to the 300 quid hole in my wallet I’ve racked up this week)Posted 3 years ago
My understanding is that is no longer on the table
He never mentioned marriage…
and yes move along now very quickly or invite her for dinner, order the nicest things there (most expensive) 2 bottles of something rather good, a couple of single malts and then get a phone call you ned to take – from the taxi/mate waiting outside 😉Posted 3 years agojambourgieMember
More tellingly I’ve paid for everything,dinner, drinks, taxis etc etc. Of course I don’t mind doing this if its a date, but seems a bit off to accept I pay for everything as her ‘mate’.
Indeed. You’d definitely want to have had yer hole after all that. She’s taking the p*ss. Tell her to do one ➡Posted 3 years ago
anyway your not a mug, did you use PP Gift?Posted 3 years ago
If she viewed you as a f***buddy and isn’t ****ing you, then it appears she doesn’t want to be your buddy or mate any more, but likes a free dinner.
The difference between sex for “love” and sex for money, sex for money is always cheaper…
Move on and move up, you’ve been mugged!
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Have fun, get drunk, enjoy life. Without her.Posted 3 years ago
Find someone else. If you want sex and can’t be bothered with the chatting up stuff go to a whore. It will be much cheaper for you. After all the one you mention is nothing but a whore by a different name but a street worker won’t leech you all the time.
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