Ok, so to make it simple:
Keeping your current freehub standard and wanting a big ish range – the sram options are heavy (NX) so I’d avoid those. Shimano do an 11-46 which gives you bigger range – I think these are lighter than the sram equivalent but still a little portly. I’d have a look at Sunrace to see what 11 speed options they have.
If you’d like to look at 11 speed 10-42 or similar then Sram are you best option but you need an XD freehub. GX is the cheapest option and it’s full steel but still lighter than XT and will last for ages. Think my last one cost £80 but I haven’t worn one out yet. You can go fancier and lighter (xo1 / xx1) but it gets very spendy.
I think Hope make a cassette with a 10t highest cog – not sure if they are XD or some kind of Hope standard. There might be some other exotic options (e13 / Garburuk) but they are also spendy.
Shimano don’t make an 11 speed cassette with a higher gear than 11t – you have to move to 12 speed and then you need a microspline freehub.