Just a quick update.
Sue’s celebration of life was yesterday. We held it at a beachside cocktail bar on the island (Arran)
The sun shone, it was warm, people came. We didn’t do invites just an open invitation to people who knew us. It was lovely to be in the company of friends.
Her cycling group made sandwiches, snacks and cakes.
We had a celebrant read the story of Sue’s life. Our daughter then read a poem that she had found that summed up her, and my, feelings beautifully.
My turn came…and I got through it. I did my thankyou’s to all her carers, medical team and friends, read a wee emotional bit that I’d written, a a snatch of a song lyric that I wanted to share…and I was done (almost)
I wavered more than a bit, but with the kids either side of me ready to step in it was good.
I was able to finish by announcing that our daughter is pregnant with our first Grandchild and that she was able to tell Sue the news before she died. That felt good.
Thanks for the support and advice on here, it really made a difference, especially the practice, practice suggestion. I’m so pleased I went for it, I feel that even if I’d failed it would have been better than not trying.