For me. Not sure why, but it just seems to work for me.
I recently sent a dearly beloved relative off to this, as it was what she had always wanted;
I could hear her giggling to herself, I swear. She would have loved the reactions. A mixture of tears and utter joy. But, mostly, utter joy at the memory of such a wonderful person. Perfect.
Even more perfect that my daughter now bears her name as one of hers. Her memory will live on, and I shall be sure to make sure my daughter grows to love La Mer as much as I do, as much as she did. 🙂 (Smiling through the tears as I listen and type here)