So, my girlfriend left me
As people have said keep yourself busy busy busy. We’ve all been there and it’s the grieving cycle. Wrap your arms around a bike and take it for many a spin, there’s a lot of counselling within riding a bike and clearing your mind of the nitty gritty detail will make it easier to face the decisions you are facing.
Basics first, accommodation for you and your stuff, then move in, living on your own is very empowering, being self sufficient and knowing you can be when sh1t hits the fan makes you more confident you can survive.
Then get that MA finished in peace and get a good job… And just ride ride oh and ride! It’s good to clear your head.Posted 7 years agoCaptainFlashheartMember
Pinches, a let me give you critique of the situation (See what I did there? Critique, geddit? Oh go on, it’s been an age since we had a good critique……)
OK, so it’s over, but at the least it’s over before you have too many commitments (Children/house/pets etc).
Best of luck old chap, and chin up, eh?Posted 7 years agobrooessMember
Happened to me many years ago. Started to do all the things I’d always wanted to do with my life and never looked back. Had a blast.
Throw yourself at all the things that make you happy, and as has been said, time will sort it all out and at least you now know the truth…
Oh, and you’ll get dead good at riding if you ride all the time 🙂Posted 7 years agoSaboteurCherieMember
Sorry to hear that man. I hope you can find some comfort somewhere and move on to a better life.
My ex left me then came back, then left me then came back then left me again, this went on and on and I thought I would never be free from the shackles of this “bad romance” till I found out he was seeing many different women up and down the UK….I realise now I should never have given it a second chance, never mind a third, fourth, fifth, etc.
I know it hurts, but I learned what is for you won’t go by you, and I am sure one day you will be able to look back and see the pain in a different light. Be safe.
HUGPosted 7 years agopinchesMember
i think a crisis bike purchase is probably on the cards. Having said that i’ve buried my head in my rally car i started building 7yrs ago and stopped when we met pretty much – suddenly it looks like the car should be finished by the end of the year and i’ll be able to use it over the summer.
I really appreciate some of the comments, and other peoples experiences are helping loads, Thanks STWPosted 7 years ago
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