yet another question on my complicated personal life!
So, i met a girl speed dating.talked to her for ages after the event and got on well.got her number and met her 5 days later for a few drinks when i was out with a mate.we all had a good laugh but i was really tired and not my chirpy self and at the end of the night she went home giving me a peck on the cheek, nothing more.i asked if she wanted to meet up again (cos i was so tired)and that it was fine if she didnt, but she said we should
i really like her, shes such a good laugh, interesting, sexy etc.
shes a bit older than me and single, im single and have two little kids which she doesnt seem bothered by(has dated someone with kids before).
anyhow my dilemma is this, is she interested in me or does she just like me as a friend? my own simplistic outlook on relationships is, if im interested i show it, if im not i dont.simple as that.my mate recons she could well be interested but is just playing it cool and might want to see me doing all the chasing etc.he recons some women are like that.
so have you ever had to do all the chasing with someone who seemed totally uninterested, only for them to then tell you they were actually well keen since you met perhaps?or if somethings gonna happen would you say there would have been a “spark” from the moment we met/got chatting etc and it would have all kicked off instantly??