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  • So another STW failed marriage on the cards
  • Premier Icon matt_outandabout
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    Good – now get the the gym and on a bike lad…

    Hi all, thought I would give an update!

    So, the (now ex) moved out after Christmas. I won’t lie chaps it nearly broke me. Hit the booze and some drugs for a while. Bad times. Hit bottom and kept going. Decided I needed to have a word with myself.

    Then.

    Then I started smashing the gym really hard. It was an epiphany. I’ve lost nearly all my fat and now have actual real man muscles. Lifts! Presses! Squats! Squats are great πŸ™‚ Boosted my confidence no end!

    We’re now friends; I’ve forgiven her for whatever it was she did, it’s water under the bridge. A reaction to symptoms of how bad our relationship had got? I don’t know, it doesn’t matter now.

    I’m actually very happy now, I see my daughter 4 or 5 times a week, and I do all the mundane stuff when she’s not here so our time together is always quality time. She’s picked up on the fact that her mum and dad are both much happier than they were before, and has really blossomed in her confidence and general jollity.

    My newfound verve and swagger helped me get a promotion in work and, well, I’ve met someone – totally out of the blue – it’s early days but I feel like a giddy teenager.

    TL;DR? Everything turns out for the best, to anyone in a similar situation to me; it DOES get better πŸ™‚

    Yeah! Sounds like you’re pretty grounded / on the level. Keep it up!

    Mintman
    Member

    Great news and compared to your first post your outlook is so much more positive. I hope it works out better and better!

    allthepies
    Member

    High-five πŸ˜€

    riderideride
    Member

    Don’t. Dwell on those who don’t want you,plenty more fish in the sea,an seems like you got a catch.

    Premier Icon rOcKeTdOg
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    went through similar my self 5 years ago, it’s only now i realise how unhappy i was then and how happy i am now

    great stuff OP

    joepose
    Member

    Sorry but there really is somebody else involved here.
    Theres no way back from this move on find someone else she will be gutted eventually but thats her issue.

    Premier Icon binners
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    Good work fella! Keep it up! Life’s pretty damn good innit? πŸ™‚

    Premier Icon njee20
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    Sorry but there really is somebody else involved here.
    Theres no way back from this move on find someone else she will be gutted eventually but thats her issue.

    Did you read the OP and then skip straight to the end?! πŸ˜•

    Well done OP, glad to hear it!

    Premier Icon footflaps
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    Congrats and well done on discovering Squats, you just need to try the Clean and Jerk and Snatch next…..

    mightymule
    Member

    Ha ha ha – you said “snatch” πŸ˜†

    I’ll get my coat.

    Tom B
    Member

    And jerk fnar fnar.

    Glad you’re happier now op

    Premier Icon 2unfit2ride
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    Top stuff, I love a happy ending.

    johndoh
    Member

    Sounds like he’s getting Happy Endings now too.

    Premier Icon jambalaya
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    Great to hear, you’ve shown strength to step back from the edge … Get some 80’s pop on … “The only way is up baby for you and me now”

    [video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E22Ms51OIeo[/video]

    Edukator
    Member

    Thanks for the update and I’m pleased you are on the up. Who needs relate when there’s STW?

    First time I’ve seen this. Have you doubters apologised to hora?

    Later hora predicts the lottery results…

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