I saw that, ref seemed almost apologetic but from my time with the whistle – we don’t set the laws, just apply them, and as soon as you start to busk the ones you don’t like, consistency disappears and you let your reffing colleagues down.
I also just was catching up on missed posts, and @kryton – don’t want to muddy waters unduly but did you decide to / not to put your hand up for coaching. Because my 2p, which you didn’t ask for but you’re getting it anyway 😉
If you don’t, who else will? Does it compromise overall. Not to bully you into it but can be a factor, the same few always seem to be the ones that coach, man the bar / BBQ, paint the scorebox, put the ground to bed at the end of the season and so on.
You say with your own training there’s no time, maybe in a couple of year’s time. Will the opportunity be there in a couple of years time? Although in many ways I screwed up my son’s basketball I absolutely look back on them with fondness, the times we spent with me helping and fetching and carrying for the coach and sharing the experience while it was there. Just like weeksy is living the dream through his son. Don’t miss that opportunity, or put different – if you decide to pass up on it now in favour of your own aspirations, get your head properly in that game and do justice to the decision.
Free advice, worth what you paid for it, apologies if it is a bit direct.