just to clear up Davy's comments, you cannot use a 1.5 headset with a lefty/headshok, they are completely different to the cannondale 'lefty' headsets.
The 1.5 is a newer std than the lefty, which actually measures 1.56.
"Basically, on top of the headset is a rubber coated steel seal/washer."
I've never thought of it as part of the headset as such, more part of the lefty fitting kit. I may well be 'offically' wrong, but I've only ever seen the headsets sold on their own, and the washers with the 'lefty'.
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I believe I have a spare which I might part with if you can't locate one easily with a dealer. Though you now have me worried that I might have damaged mine when I fitted it last (with liberal use of force)