Cutaway saddles can and do feel different and do shift bodyweight onto better human structures i.e. they shift the pressure from the vulnerable and delicate perineum to the two sitz bones on the pelvis.
Consider Specialized or WTB or the Selle SMP..
Nose of the saddle should be a tad lower than rear of the seat..
Sitting down a lot can also damage the pudendal nerve, as can squats and leg press machines, and childbirth.
A urologist apparently once said that there are cyclists who are impotent, and ones who soon will be…
If you are going to get a cutaway, consider how wide your pelvis is. Can you feel the bony protrusion beneath each bum cheek? That’s your sitz bone. If you measure the distance you’ll know what size cutaway saddle will work best. Some shops who sell Specialized saddles will have a gel memory cushion that you sit on that retains an impression of the boney part of your arse (the sitz bones) so that you can choose the right size. I like ’em wide, about 165 or so..