My advice is to take all the gear you are planning to be using to a shop like Tiso and ask to try out some bags. They won’t mind and it is the best way to see what bags your gear fits in. Try as many on for fit as possible as they will vary a lot between models and sizes.
Once all your gear is loaded up, you might decide you have too much stuff and would prefer to go more lightweight. Again leave out non essentials and try loading up some smaller bags to see the difference.
Have a look on http://www.walkhighlands.co.uk/news/gear-review-rucksacks-for-wild-camping/008349/ for reviews and also Chris Townsend covers backpacking gear lists in some youtube vids and on his blog if you have a search for them.
I use a 45 litre bag for summer camping when doing munros. I find this gives me enough space for a night or two and doubles up as my winter day bag as well. I like to keep things simple though and only take the essentials. If I wanted a bit more home comforts then I would be looking at 50 to 65 litre bags but then it is easy and all to tempting to overdo it and end up lugging a monster weight up and down the hills which I don’t enjoy.