Well… while we are updating…
I put a profile on POF after reading this thread, back in September / October. In the initial barrage of messages, two stood out as possibly rational mtbing guys. I arranged to meet the first, and shelved the second for later…
It was a couple of months later, after a few failed dates, that I remembered guy no2 and I got back in touch. He was still about, so we arranged to meet over New Year. It has been an ‘interesting’ few months 🙄 , not quite as straight forward as the movies make it out to be, but 5 months on and we’re still together, things have settled down and I am really very happy 8)
So to anyone thinking of giving up – you never know, someone could be just about to get in touch…