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Oh Rolf :(
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pondoFull Member
Don’t know if there’s anything to be drawn from it, or whether it’s reflective of the number and complexity of the charges, but the jury deliberated for well over thirty hours, which suggests it wasn’t that clear cut to them.
Gotta say, fair play to the women who came forward, can’t imagine how hard that must have been. There was a woman on Jeremy Vine today, she’d taken her daughter to see him (the woman owned one of his paintings) – she had to ask her daughter today whether anything had happened, which must be a pretty horrid conversation to have to contemplate…
pondoFull Memberhora –
If someone calls you ‘abit Vanilla’ it means your insipid/abit bland dear.Oh, it was meant as an insult? Good show, that certainly put me in my place.
RustySpannerFull MemberTechnically, I believe it’s known as the ‘Stretford Defence’.
😉I think there are two Horas. The thoroughly pleasant chap I met and the one who posts on here.
I wonder if by chance they could be related?horaFree MemberBack ontopic, it always gets my back up when the comment ‘it was a different era’ is bandied around. Usually around parenting, to hide bad parents as though bad parenting was the norm. When it wasn’t. I remember friends parents being good/heads screwed on and others who were complete selfish idiots.
A different era when applied to the gropers in the media – so that was all blokes then, it was the norm to grab a stranger womans arse or physically casually assault a female work colleague?
Rusty there are hora twins? 😯
teaselFree MemberSome forms of morality have almost always been considered universally absolute.
For very good reasons.
Sexual contact with children is damaging to the child, physically and mentally, even in societies where it is not illegal.Attempting to justify any sexual assault by an adult on any child is unacceptable.
Always.There appear to be plenty of people on here who cannot grasp this simple concept, going by previous threads on the subject.
I’ll link to a few later.I find it quite disturbing, tbh.
I once made a comment about the rock stars of the era in question on a different thread – Ronnie Wood etc as well as John Peel, I think were the discussion points. At the time I was attempting to express what I perceived to be the attitude held by some at that time. It was immediately jumped on by Bunnyhop and, iirc, you, too – expressed in very similar terms. When folk like you take the moral high ground, for whatever reason, and deliberately misconstrue other folks musings and opinions, it makes for an unpleasant discussion, almost like you have to defend yourself, and once you’ve been branded, that’s that.
The attitude in the sixties was different to nowadays and while I agree that all molestation and unwanted sexual attention is wrong, I understand that, as a result of those attitudes, victims were unable to come forward because it simply wasn’t believed or accepted by the majority of British society at the time, in my opinion. Kids should be seen and not heard etc. All total bollocks but it did happen. To discuss these issues while denying backward attitudes existed and influenced the behaviour of victims and confidants alike is just being unrealistic.
And before you pipe up about me talking shit, I was on the receiving end of abuse that went unpunished and unnoticed. As a victim I always felt guilty; as if it was my fault. That’s what certain types of folk are good at – making you feel wrong no matter what the reality.
horaFree MemberRonnie Woods/John Peel- are unique just like Townsend. Lets not forget those who did wrong were outed so you can see it wasn’t the norm. Otherwise no one would out them. Plus the vast majority (rest) of the stars aren’t outed- so either the massive majority are normal or there is one or two more stars who may pop up out of the woodwork.
What bothers me is the likes of Ronnie Woods- can blatantly woo an underaged girl as hes got the blessing of her mother and yet his band members etc etc etc aren’t screaming the obvious at him. Just ‘I dont want owt to do with that mess’?
teaselFree Memberyet his band members etc etc etc aren’t screaming the obvious at him. Just ‘I dont want owt to do with that mess’?
Kind of the attitude I was referring to. Back then it was, as you put it…”No **** way am I getting involved with that!” where as nowadays it’s..”No **** way am I letting someone get away with that!”
It’s never been acceptable but it’s definitely been tolerated.
RustySpannerFull Memberteasel.
Firstly:
Everything I say is just an opinion.
Just like anyone else.Secondly:
I’ll reread that thread (the one about the teacher?).
If I’ve been a judgemental prick, then I unreservedly apologise.Thirdly:
I don’t think that condemning sexual contact between adults and children could be considered to be ‘getting on a high horse’.Lastly:
I agree that attitudes toward the discussion of such assault and the repercussionds thereof have changed.
I’ve never said otherwise.
I assumed we had all taken that as read.However, such assault was not condoned by society in the 60’s.
To suggest otherwise is wrong.
It was illegal then and is illegal now.
Which is what I said previously.edlongFree MemberDon’t know if there’s anything to be drawn from it, or whether it’s reflective of the number and complexity of the charges, but the jury deliberated for well over thirty hours, which suggests it wasn’t that clear cut to them.
Don’t know if you’ve served on a jury, but I have, and 30 hours doesn’t seem like an especially long time, particularly as they have a duty to consider all the evidence, some of which was from a long time ago, and contradictory (e.g. the “I’ve never been to Cambridge” – “Oh look here’s a video of you in Cambridge” stuff). Doesn’t mean they didn’t all think “guilty” from the start, more that they have made an effort to discharge their duties properly.
mogrimFull MemberThirdly:
I don’t think that condemning sexual contact between adults and children could be considered to be ‘getting on a high horse’.Lastly:
I agree that attitudes toward the discussion of such assault and the repercussionds thereof have changed.
I’ve never said otherwise.
I assumed we had all taken that as read.However, such assault was not condoned by society in the 60’s.
To suggest otherwise is wrong.
It was illegal then and is illegal now.Dunno, I get the feeling that the attitude towards celebrities (rock stars spring to mind, a Radio 1 DJ would be similar) and teenage groupies was different back in the 70s, there was more acceptance of a “stud” type figure.
With smaller children it was never acceptable, but it was far more likely to lead to a response similar to the Catholic church – get the offender out of here and away from our kids, their kids are someone else’s problem.
pondoFull MemberDon’t know if you’ve served on a jury, but I have, and 30 hours doesn’t seem like an especially long time
Fair play – I never have, I stand corrected.
LiferFree MemberCan there be a prosecution without a complaint?
In terms of rockstars Bill Wyman went to the police voluntarily at the beginning of yewtree and was told he had no case to answer as there had been no complaint.
Smith herself confirmed publicly three years ago that she was 14 when they first had sex, and a decade earlier her older sister had called for him to be prosecuted.
“I went to the police and I went to the public prosecutor and said, ‘Do you want to talk to me? Do you want to meet up with me, or anything like that?’ and I got a message back, ‘No’,” he said.
EdukatorFree MemberI’d have thought you’d been reading my posts long enough to know they are the whole truth when it comes to my personal experience, Ernie. I’ve had a look at friendsreunited to see how others remember that headmaster. One states ” Mr ****** A churchwarden and respected member of the community. I shall only say I am glad I am a boy”.
ernie_lynchFree MemberI’m not challenging whether the alleged behaviour occurred, I’m challenging you apparent suggestion that such behaviour would have been considered acceptable in the 1960s.
wwaswasFull MemberEdukator – what you’re describing is ‘Everybody knew, nobody said’ not that if it had been reported to the police by multiple victims that no action would have been taken because it was seen as morally and legally acceptable.
ioloFree MemberIt seems to me Edukator considers it acceptable in this time.
Nice.EdukatorFree MemberAll the kids saw it happening, many reported it back to their parents and nobody lifted a finger. My sister attended the same school and my parents simply told her to keep away from him. Unacceptable behaviour but tolerated, see Teasel’s comments. Homosexual grooming was tolerated in the cycling club I was a member of in the 70s (I wasn’t the one doing the grooming).
ernie_lynchFree MemberThe only possible reason a headmaster could want to spend his day bouncing little girls on his knee would be for sexual gratification.
The suggestion that in the 1960s had parents/adults been told of the behaviour they would have simply dismissed it as a perk of the job is quite ludicrous.
EDIT : “my parents simply told her to keep away from him” ffs. No teacher ever touched me or made physical contact with me at any time in my school years, beyond with a cane, and I can’t recall any other pupil having a different experience.
“Homosexual grooming was tolerated in the cycling club I was a member of in the 70s”
Again, ffs. “Homosexual grooming” was not tolerated in the 1970s. I knew kids in my school in Peckham who boasted that they engaged in the despicable act of “queer bashing”.
montariusFree MemberGutted if it’s true gutted for him if it’s not – No winners in this one.
If true – the victims are the winners..!
EdukatorFree MemberIt seems to me Edukator considers it acceptable in this time.
Nice.Iolo. I really think you should read back through my posts because you won’t find any such quote.
In case you haven’t understood my position:
1/ I’m in favour of “prescription”, a legal limit to the time after a crime one can be prosecuted for it. I don’t believe a crime can be safely prosecuted 30-40 years after the events on witness statements. If you want to know more, do some research on the justification for prescription in French law.
2/ Rolf has been prosecuted because the British system allows it. I am not convinced the conviction is safe or fair but he has been found guilty by the court so will be sentenced. Given that he poses little or no threat to society I think a suspended sentence would be the most appropriate.
3/ Sex crime against children is unacceptable. What legally constitutes sex crime has evolved over the years. Corporal punishment is no longer legal in schools which has removed much of the ambiguity that existed in the 60s and 70s. What was allowed or tolerated then is plain illegal now. However we shouldn’t apply 2014 standards to cases concerning events that took place back then. Headmasters that took pleasure in spanking little girls bums (as school rules allowed, parents were then happy with, and the law permitted) should not be dragged through the courts 40 years later. And nor IMO should Rolf.
Those are just my opinions guys, I’m not trolling.
EdukatorFree MemberYou calling me a liar is getting tiresome, Ernie. I was there, I was the one being groomed. As a streetwise 15-year-old I made it clear the first kiss wasn’t welcome and that was the end of it.
MoreCashThanDashFull MemberHe has a different point of view. Other nearby European neighbours have similar different views. You and I may think he is wrong, but constantly going over the same old points seems a waste of bandwidth to me.
teaselFree MemberHowever, such assault was not condoned by society in the 60’s.
To suggest otherwise is wrong.
It was illegal then and is illegal now.
Which is what I said previously.I wasn’t really referring to the legalities, more the attitude and as I wrote on the other page, it’s been tolerated in the past. Mogrim’s first paragraph on the other page puts it better than I could.
The suggestion that in the 1960s had parents/adults been told of the behaviour they would have simply dismissed it as a perk of the job is quite ludicrous.
A friend of mine had an experience at the age of twelve. She was a quick developer, so to write, and that was all it took for the perpetrator to think it okay.
“C’mon, you know you want it”.
When she told someone in a position of authority she was told all stable girls go through the same thing. This was 1984. So, you may well be correct; it might not have happened in the sixties but it sure as **** happened in the eighties…
ernie_lynchFree MemberYou calling me a liar is getting tiresome, Ernie. I was there, I was the one being groomed.
And I find your continual misrepresentation of what I’ve said tiresome. “Homosexual grooming” was not tolerated in the 1970s, whatever you might claim. I have no idea whether or not you were molested as a child, and I have never at any time given an opinion on the matter. Troll on.
JunkyardFree MemberEdukator its an interesting life you have had from a sexually abusive head, grooming in a cycling club, racial abuse in leicester because you were white
You must tell us about your adventures in europe when you left….were they as atypical?
1/ I’m in favour of “prescription”,
I am in favour of presentign the evidence and letting juries describe. there is not a time whereby its ok to have done and you are free from guilt.
Given that he poses little or no threat to society I think a suspended sentence would be the most appropriate.[/quote]
Why do you not want to punish the sexual offender for his sexual offences?
I only want to rob one bank …..will that be punishment free as well?3/ Sex crime against children is unacceptable.
yes but we should not prosecute it and just let it be 😕
EdukatorFree MemberHomosexual grooming was most definitely tolerated in that cycling club in the 70s, Ernie, I was there, I was groomed and I soon realised that the vast majority of members knew what was happening but kept quiet. If the majority knew but neither said nor did anything they “tolerated” homosexual grooming. At the time I wasn’t too bothered by the sexual advances which I simply rejected, I was however annoyed that I hadn’t been warned by other members, especially a slightly older one who’d been targeted before me
You persist in accusing me of lying about what happened in one cycling club in the 1970S, Ernie, when you weren’t there but I was. I invite every member that reads this to read both our posts on this thread (especially this page). I an in no way misrepresenting what you say but you are definitely saying a fact I state is untrue. You are accusing me of lying.
ernie_lynchFree MemberYou persist in accusing me of lying about what happened in one cycling club in the 1970S
I persist in calling you a liar when you suggest that homosexual grooming was tolerated or considered acceptable in the 1970s. I have no idea what happened in your cycling club, I wasn’t there.
If what happened in your cycling club in the 1970s wasn’t typical of that era why are you mentioning it ?
EdukatorFree MemberWhy do you not want to punish the sexual offender for his sexual offences?
I think the media shaming and being dragged through the court system has been punishment and rehabilitation enough. I don’t think he is a threat to any young person given what he’s gone through, and there can’t be many people who don’t know who he is and what he has done. I’ve already stated this is a previous post but as you asked… .
My life here has been really interesting, Junkyard. Some really great experiences. Some days it rains though, today it’s raining so hard the satelite signal has gone and the ZDF coverage of the Switzerland-Argentina match is intermittent.
EdukatorFree MemberErnie, read back, I have always given the context of a 70s cycling club. Please, please, please, read back. I have not referred to homosexual grooming in any other context.
ioloFree MemberThis has to be one of your best Troll ever Edukator.
You against everybody.
What will you discuss next week, Necrophiliacs?
You’ll be fapping all week after this one’s done.EdukatorFree MemberCharacter assassination from half a dozen posters because I think Rolf only deserves a suspended sentence. Four that have chipped in with similar views though – only to get character assassinated too.
Your last post says far more about you than it does me, Iolo, you wrote it.
ernie_lynchFree MemberEdukator – Troll
Ernie, read back, I have always given the context of a 70s cycling club. Please, please, please, read back. I have not referred to homosexual grooming in any other context.
Got you. You are not claiming that homosexual grooming was tolerated or considered acceptable in the 1970s in the wider society, just in your 1970s cycling club. Well I can’t argue with that, I wasn’t there – remember ?
So why are you mentioning it on this thread ? Was Rolf Harris in your cycling club ? Explain please.
bencooperFree MemberWhy a suspended sentence? The sentence is not only to protect the public, it’s to punish – pour décourager les autres.
EdukatorFree MemberBen and Ernie, could you both reread the thread, please. I’ve already covered both those points.
bencooperFree MemberYou think that being exposed as a sex offender is enough punishment?
ernie_lynchFree MemberEdukator – Troll
Ben and Ernie, could you both reread the thread, please.
Not a chance. So what’s the connection with Rolf Harris and your cycling club ?
EdukatorFree MemberIf you had read back you wouldn’t have needed to ask that question, Ben. You posted less than a minute after I suggested you read back.
I think I’ve made all my views clear and provided adequate explanation.
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