No kids & Having the snip
If you go with Footflaps idea (and why not) mind you thumbs or you will not get the desired effect but half flattened nads and sore thumbsI had to convince them it was a good idea as i looked young back then and 3rd daughter on route!even the cats are female … i look a lot older now 🙁Posted 4 years agocodybrennanMember
I wouldn’t do it. I nearly backed out of mine, despite having 2 kids. The guy says to me: “are you sure about this”, and I’m “yeah, of course, the wife and I have discussed it and-“
“Wait a minute” he says. “Your wife? What does your wife have to do with it?”
“How do you mean?”, I said.
“Well”, he says, “she might not always be here, despite what you think. What if, for example, 2 years from now she dies, and you meet someone else younger. How would that person and you feel about your inability to have a child?”
It really sat me back, and meant I had to go and think about it for half an hour. In the end I went through with it. But with no kids- why?Posted 4 years agoOzInbredSubscriber
yeah had it done about age 35, no questions from the doc, referred me to the local NHS hospital and all was straightforward. the wife and I always knew we didn’t want kids so it wasn’t a tough decision, certainly easier than my wife going through the whole sterilization procedure.Posted 4 years agosoobaliasMember
same boat houns, as im sure we discussed before, always knew i didnt want kids (now stuck with two steps (19/20) after getting married a couple of years back i decided to take the plunge and was generally made aware that the GP might be a little cautious, but that with the wifes backing, it wouldnt be a NO, I was the same age you are now.
eventual stumbling block was the wife – no idea why, but shes dead against it? bought shares in durex instead which is my pension plan.Posted 4 years agoyourguitarheroMember
Yeah, my wife and I don’t want kids.
Not gone as far as getting the snip though – in our early 30s, so things …could.. change.
When you tell people you don’t want kids – have no interest in kids even, they just don’t get it. Some people get really annoyed actually! Not like I’m asking them not to have any…?Posted 4 years ago
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