“interesting food” – loads of that! Pick your cuisines and go nuts. You could spend your entire trip walking between eateries. If you walk everywhere, you can afford probably 4 meals a day? plus snacks/ cakes/coffees? Magnolia Bakery for cakes if you’re round that way. Ton of good beers too – a lot of “enthusiasts” beer bars in Williamsburg.
Music? Smalls if you like jazz, and even if you’re not 100% about it. Lots of history.
“I think I might be a bit selfish” – I sort of said it before, but give her this one! Let her lead and let yourself enjoy it.
There used to be a bit of friction between the wife and me, because I always organised the winter holiday, and summer often came and went without us having a proper summer holiday, which she always enjoys more. When it came to a head, I told her that I organise the winter holiday because I’m passionate about the mountains, I’ve got about 10 ideas for trips at any one time, and there’s always one or two top of the list for next year. I said I just don’t care in the same way about summer holidays. It’s not that I don’t enjoy them, I definitely do. If it’s important to you – you organise the summer holiday.
So she does summer, I do winter and everyone’s happy!