Ok!! Firstly thanks for all of you who took the time to make suggestions to try and resolve the problem for me.
So as planned I went armed with the choices from you last nigh sat my wife down and went through the ones I liked….
Then through the bumper book of baby names again and after much deliberation got well and truly no where!
In the end as my wife wasn’t happy with my choices and I wasn’t to keen on her alternative suggestions I took the advice given by a forum member –
Seriously if your wife likes something and you have no clear idea then let her decide.
The way I see it, if its what my mind associates with my daughter I will get used to and love any name given to her and a temporary thumb print on the forehead is less painful than a lifetime of ear ache!