My sister-in-law makes my blood boil…
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whilst using his flat to grow weed
or 0800 555 111Posted 4 years agotinsyMember
It does not matter what they buy they will still be the same people.
Just chill, relax in the knowledge you are doing the right thing for yourself’ s financially, & at it will all work out yet again in your favour.
When the Audi is repossessed & the next shitty boyfriend gets caught, just try not to be smug. 🙂Posted 4 years agopolyMember
He’s been living with her for about 6 months whilst using his flat to grow weed. £10K profit (apparently).
Therein lies many of the problems with society. You know he’s doing something illegal, whilst also working the benefits system to the max, and yet you’ve done nothing about it.Posted 4 years agocarlosgMember
I used to feel like you about members of my family who appeared to be getting a better deal than me but I got over it. People are different and as long as you’re happy with how your own life is panning out then just ignore the people who are winding you up so much , look at the positives in your own life.Posted 4 years ago
Myself I have a lovely wife who adores me and 2 amazing sons the cup oards are full of food the bills are paid and occasionally I have a few quid to spend on my bikes , every time I start to feel down/pissed off I just think of them and everything’s fine in my world.
Why does it bother you? In all honesty you could find millions of people whos moral compass and lifestyle are not in line with yours, why do you care? If your good lady is happy and you are happy what difference does it make? If someone is committing fraud report it if you so wish but bear in mind that those at the top defraud considerably more than those at the bottom yet aren’t so demonised.
I can’t help thinking you could simply ignore it, the best way to treat attention seekers is not give them attention.
As for the money from weed – really? He sells a bit of weed FFS (approx 80 ounces) so not loads, he’s not out robbing people again why do you care?Posted 4 years agorocketmanMember
People are like this the world over
When we moved into our house the neighbours over the road had to copy everything we did – keeping up with the Joneses I imagine
We like hiking – they get some boots and rucksacks and go round the block
We like biking – they buy a couple of BSOs and a bike rack currently languishing in the garage
I have a motorbike – he can’t ride
Great successPosted 4 years agowartonMember
Her current BF gets £1500/month tax free in benefits + CT/rent paid. He’s been living with her for about 6 months whilst using his flat to grow weed. £10K profit (apparently).
Regardless of whether it’s still there, speak to the police they’ll investigate where the money came from (maybe) If she bought the car (or part paid) using cash the police can and will ask where the money came from.Posted 4 years ago
You know he’s doing something illegal, whilst also working the benefits system to the max, and yet you’ve done nothing about it
He’s not growing it now but if he does I will..He’s working the system as his doctor keep signing him off.
Why does it bother you?
Because she happily rubs everyone’s face in it at any possible opportunity. I do try my best to avoid/ignore when I can but that’s the problem with (married into) family I guess
He sells a
bitshit load of weed FFS (approx 80 ounces) so notyes, loads
FTFYPosted 4 years agoJunkyardMember
Her current BF gets £1500/month tax free in benefits + CT/rent paid.
well I will be kind and assume a 5 week month so that is £300 net so I am led to the conclusion that his 5 children live with him [ or 3 and a half and he gets severe LDA/ESA]
Which is it ?
Patiently awaits facts
Look they/he may be “low lifes” but there is no way he gets this on benefitsPosted 4 years agoJunkyardMember
It is complete BS his maximum would be £150 ish per week* – seems reasonable to assume he would be full of shit thoughPosted 4 years ago
He would also be on medication for it and treatment as he would need to be a never “cured” case. He may have fooled his doctor for all we know
* I doubt he gets that much tbh
Bit of background 1st:
S-I-L isn’t really any good. She had her 1st daughter @ 15 years old and expected everyone else to do the child care. She doesn’t like working and does 15 ish hours a week so it doesn’t impact her benefits. All of her boyfriends have been total losers.
Daughters dad is a useless dad, doesn’t want to know the kids.
Her list of boyfriends include:
Paranoid schizophrenic/drug dealer who has never worked due to his ‘illness’.
She’s one of those people who has to be centre of attention.
When we were getting married she became anorexic
When we had our little girl she had to get a dog as she couldn’t cope with us having a baby and her not having one (a dog was better than getting pregnant which was her other plan)
My OH works really hard and has been driving an old 206 around for ages. We decided last week that it would be a good idea to change her car so have opted for a Ford Fiesta. Nice car, reliable, cheap to run etc etc. Her ideal car would’ve been an Audi A1.
S-I-L has had shit car after shit car and has sponged money to keep them maintained etc. She has to have a boy racer car to ‘look good’.
We suggested that she do something similar to my wife and get a Fiesta on PCP.
Turns out she’s been to the Audi garage today and is getting an A1, picking it up on the same day as my wife gets hers…
Why?? Is ther any logic to this behaviour??
Rant over…..Posted 4 years ago
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