Sorry to hear about your loss, however much, or little bearing it has on your life.
kaesae – Member
Sorry to hear that Hora, my sperm doner left when I was 4, don’t really have much use for him now.
If you decided to live without him in your life, perhaps it was for the best.
Time is great for helping us learn how to deal with all sorts of internal turmoil, ridefree!
My sperm donor also left when I was 4.
I traced my grandparents when I was 21 and through them got in contact with my old man in Hong Kong. We met and got on fantastically, travelling out to see him in HK and he’s been over here a few times.
I have 2 sisters that I would have never even known about had I not got in touch and my life is richer for it. Your situation may be entirely different Kaesae, but don’t write off ever meeting him again unless you have good reason.