My 82 year old dad was admitted to hospital earlier in the week – unable to speak, apparent significant urinary infection, diabetes issues.
After a night on a trolley in A&E my mum (85, had been home to get some sleep) went to see him and was told he’d discharged himself.
He was wearing pyjamas when admitted and had a coat but no shoes.
Mum queries this, nurse insists it’s the case. Repeatedly and with increasing vigour. Mum confused phones my sister who speaks to nurse: “If he’s gone call the police, he’s vulnerable confused and ill”. Nurse realises she’s making a career decision and goes to look:
“Oh, he’d been moved round a corner – we couldn;t find him so assumed he’d gone and updated the computer.”
**** shits assuming a bloke in pyjamas who can barely talk let alone walk’s going to go through an official self discharge process. ****.
Anyway, he spends the day in a corridor, got his diabetes under control so he’s now coherent and is then transferred ‘to a ward’ as he’s been there 24 hours and breached all sorts of targets.
Gets to ward: “You’ll be sleeping in a chair in the relatives room”.
“I won’t”
“Pardon”
“I’m not sleeping in a chair.” he put his coat on the floor and starts to lie down on it.
“you can’t do that, it’s not safe!”
“it’s this or you get me a bed.”
10 mintues later he had a bed.
There were 3 other men in the same room preparing to spend the night in a chair.
So mixed feelings;
1) there’s some uncaring bastards working in the NHS – proper ‘computer says no’ types – prepared to play with an old woman’s fears and an old mans life until told what the consequences are likely to be.
2) this is November – we’re barely into the peak season for strain on the NHS – there’s no spare capacity. If you get ill this winter you’re playing a lotery as far as treatment and care goes and it’s largely not the fault of those providing it.
*and breathe*