Dude, fair enough question why your wife crashed in such a way, but swearing and raising your voice is just going to make things worse. You’re dealing with another person, a person with feelings; regardless of whose fault it is.
You’re two year old son is not a reason for staying together if it’s not working, it’s a reason for separation. Stressed and unhappy children = stressed and unhappy children.
Just been reading this thread !,& while some are giving genuine advice,& for the others sake,I hope your wife’s/partners don’t come in here !,makes good entertainment tho,better than football,good nite ..much love