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  • Mates gone over to the other side.
  • Premier Icon project
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    Today i recieved a text from a mate to say he had something to tell me, hes a gay, dont know what to say, when i meet him.

    Premier Icon mrmichaelwright
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    exactly the same as you normally say to him?

    either that or you won’t here the sound of his feet on your bridge

    Premier Icon falkirk_mark
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    Jesus, I thought you were gonna tell me he’s turned roadie

    Premier Icon ziggy
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    Could be worse he could grow a beard and have desires over Marins.

    He’s a mate gay or not, just cos he’s now gay doesn’t mean he’s going to ask you out for a candlelit dinner.

    Premier Icon coffeeking
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    Jesus, I thought you were gonna tell me he’s turned roadie

    LOL Me too!

    Project – carry on as normal. He’s still the same person isn’t he? I’m struggling to see how you find it a quandry.

    Premier Icon richc
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    same as everyone else, it could be worse, he could be a roadie

    Premier Icon BigDummy
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    Why do people send texts with such important information? What on earth did the text say? Seriously, the mind boggles. 😕

    It is important to remember that your average homosexual man is no more likely to leap on people and arse-rape them than your average heterosexual man. There is no more need to be creeped out by him than you would be by a girl who didn’t fancy you and who you didn’t remotely fancy.

    🙂

    Premier Icon aP
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    And your problem is caller?

    I remember about 12 years ago a good friend came out to me, and my reaction was “…and?”

    Premier Icon fatsimonmk2
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    project got to ask if you have known this mate for a while surly you must had an idea in the back of your mind that he was gay or did it really come out of left field ethier way still the same person he was yesterday so talk to him the same way you did yesterday.

    Premier Icon coffeeking
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    aP – yes I had a similar thing with a mate of mine from school and college. Some years later it came out that he was, while he wasnt about but a bunch of mates in the pub were. Someone said “Oh did you know, X came out yesterday” – which was a total shock, as he hadnt seemed “that way” etc. The response from all 4 of the rest of us was “oh, right” and the conversation went on as normal. Next time I saw him he was a lot happier looking, gladly, and I dont remember any of his mates thinking anything odd about it. Maybe he was just fortunate to have open minded mates, but its pretty damn common these days!

    I do skit him about it a bit now (could be controversial, just like the royal situation at the moment) but I’ve known him long enough for him to return the insults and buy another beer with a grin.

    Premier Icon steve_b77
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    You’ve got to ask yourself is it actually a shock that he is?

    Even then so what he’s been gay all the time you’ve known him, nowt’s changed really

    Premier Icon Stu
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    Take your own advice maybe? 😉 From the casual relationships thread a week or so ago…

    project – Member

    Mr gibbons, perhaps your “freind” may be gay, or possibly haveing serious thoughts about his sexuality, if so, let him be, not everyone wants to come out of the so called closet, so he looks a normal lad, so what, if hes gay the women will flock to him , if hes straight , he needs to attract them, some men dont want women as girlfreinds , but as freinds, just because you and you male freinds all have giorlfreinds doesnt mean that he has to, just be his freind, not his social daying agency.

    Premier Icon Oxboy
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    Is this really about your ‘mate’? or are you thinking of coming out and using this to guage peoples reactions?

    Premier Icon alwyn
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    Are you afraid he will get aroused when he sees you in your lycra cycling shorts?

    Premier Icon coffeeking
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    I think we have found an answer. Welcome “out” project.

    Premier Icon brakes
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    just make sure you lock the back gate when you go to meet him

    Premier Icon 5thElefant
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    I’d assume some smart arse got hold of his phone. If not its an endless opportunity for cock gags.

    Premier Icon RudeBoy
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    brakes- no, actually, I can’t be bothered.

    Can’t see what the issue is myself, but I suppose it might be a bit of a shock, if you’ve known someone for a while, and always assumed they were straight.

    Premier Icon WorldClassAccident
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    He is going to be so embarressed when he realises what predictive text did to his message saying ‘I am icy’

    Premier Icon woody2000
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    Should have got yourself one of these 🙂

    Seriously though, what difference does his sexuality make? My only beef would be that a “mate” didn’t feel he/she could tell me face to face. That aside, it’s a non-issue as far as I’m concerned.

    Premier Icon deadlydarcy
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    Did it not dawn on you when you got a taste of poo from his willy?

    Premier Icon mboy
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    A Mate is a mate, as long as he respects the fact that you’re straight, it shouldn’t change anything in the slightest.

    Premier Icon woody2000
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    deadly – that’s just wrong!

    Made me laugh tho 😆

    Premier Icon nickc
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    He didn’t go over, he was already there, he just didn’t tell you. Makes no difference

    Premier Icon kona_uk
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    At least you will have someone to go shopping with now…

    Do you have any issues with his sexuality ?

    He is a mate after all, what difference does it make ? 🙂

    Premier Icon jimmy
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    Give him a hug, he’ll need it. Just make sure he’s not firming up.

    Then carry on as usual.

    Premier Icon deadlydarcy
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    Yeah, you know that hug you give your hot auntie with your bum slightly stuck out in case she can feel the semi in your troosers!! One of those should do it…

    Premier Icon waynekerr
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    Is he a giver or taker?

    Premier Icon duckers
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    Now you know why his bike has no seat.

    Premier Icon tails
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    fancy a bum?

    Premier Icon neverfastenuff
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    Hell be handy if you thump your tackle on the crossbar wont he, my mates would be bloody useless

    Premier Icon djglover
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    Shouldn’t make a jot of difference, one of my best mates came out when he was 19, had known him since 11 and we had dinner on Saturday @ 33

    Nothing has changed

    Premier Icon pk-ripper
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    When you meet him, all you need to say is: “you is liking a cock up yo batty, right bro”? That’s how street people talk to their gay friends.

    Show him you’re street. He’ll respect you for it.

    Premier Icon falkirk_mark
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    djlover
    Please make sure you don’t have dinner @69

    IGMC

    Premier Icon grumm
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    I was cleaning my bike outside today, one of my neighbours came home and started talking to me about bikes, showed me his bike – imagine my disgust when I realised it was a Marin hardtail. I have started looking in the property section of the paper already.

    Premier Icon waynekerr
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    What ever you do, don’t say “Well blow me”

    Premier Icon Junkyard
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    is this actually an issue to some people this century?

    Premier Icon scaredypants
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    grumm,
    bloke moved in over the road from me has one of those whyte PRST-N things

    have to admit, I’ve come over a bit bike curious

    Premier Icon neverfastenuff
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    Favourite ride – wimbledon common

    Premier Icon tails
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    Yeah junkyard it is, especially in afro-caribbean communities. Just listen to a buju banton record.

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