Has anyone used a marriage councillor to get there marriage back together ??
i did the worst thing possible at the end of last year and that was have an affair
ive been with my wife for 26 years since school and this is the only time ive strayed and im not proud of it
i was so full of guilt that i confessed it all and moved out of the family home and found somewhere to rent ?
we are on talking terms now and maybe seeking help is the best course of action.
has anyone used one of these and were the results positive?
Yep, me and ExMrsNettles went to Relate for a while when it was clear that things were not going well. We did eventually split, but I think the time with Relate allowed that split to be amicable as we both understood why it had happened.
It’s only something that you can do if you both want to do it, but it can’t make things worse, so why not?
Were seeing a counsellor now. Our problem is communication which led to a magnitude of problems. After 4 sessions things are looking positive. It’s a long road to recovery but this was a last ditch effort and for the moment seems to be paying off.
Based on limited life experience I would suggest it tends to be because something isn’t quite right at home. If a communication issue underlies this, then it’s definitely worth your while trying. As others have said, it might be a make or break type scenario, but it must be better than being in limbo.