@geuben it’s the fact that neither me nor the kids can rely on her being there when we would like her to be – our kids are 13 & 16 and understand the importance of what she does, but a few times she’s missed events as she’s working late and I’ve seen the disappointment on the kids faces.
I’ve ended up going part time to ensure that there is someone around for the kids when they need it – both do activities at county level. I’m looking to try and get my career back on track but it has to fit around her unpredictability.
This year’s highlight was when I crashed on a ride on the day I needed to take daughter to a music exam.
“Can you leave work to do the exam run – I need to go to minor injuries to get checked out?”
“No, I’m in court, can’t get away.”
So I took daughter to her exam with what I thought was just gravel rash on my face and a bit of whiplash. 5 hours after crashing the MIU team found the broken finger and trapped nerves 😄