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  • Is it just me or is this place boring?
  • Cougar
    Full Member

    What conclusions are we to draw from this?

    That you want us to moderate and delete any opinions we disagree with? Yeah, that’ll go down well, and encourage lively discussions. I can imaging my inbox now, you wouldn’t believe the amount of crap some people send us when we ban them.

    Or that you think that the best way of correcting things like prejudice is to sweep it under the carpet and pretend it doesn’t exist, rather than debate those views and perhaps have them realigned during the discourse, educate a few people.

    How am I doing?

    *heads off to delete all the football and cricket threads*

    officialtob
    Free Member

    I cant believe I just wasted 5 minutes of my life reading this crap. 🙄

    Edukator
    Free Member

    Fine, Cougar.

    Fear, fear is the key. People where I live fear the Roms because when they arrive the things they fear start happening. Prejudice is based on fear and when there are good reasons to be afraid I’m not going to criticise people for being prejudiced. Some take matters into their own hands when attempts at a pact with the Roms fail.

    Fear influences peoples habits and thus the economy, it only takes a few pick pockets to cut tourist revenues. My own choices include not owning a vehicle that the local Roms will view as a free source of spare parts or an easy sale somewhere abroad. That means I’ll never buy another new van of the type they favour. I don’t go to local village festivals because the Roms go and trouble follows – a police officer’s son was killed in a local village a couple of years back by a traveler from the local camp. I can’t shelter in churches anymore because the house of God is now invariably locked because of this 400 police needed to recover stolen religious objects

    edlong
    Free Member

    This is just the stuff that amazes me about the mods, the racism / prejudice that is being spouted here is beyond debate, yet the mods let it roll

    I agree with Cougar, driving people’s prejudiced, offensive (to some) views underground achieves nothing other than justifying the “PC gone mad” line. Better to have it in the open and a free debate. I’m surprised (in a good way) at the common sense line the mods have taken on this thread, and to be honest, I’m also surprised (in a good way) with the way the debate has been conducted on all sides (so far).

    I’d rather racism was out in the open so I can challenge it than lurking in dark corners, festering away.

    whitegoodman
    Free Member

    We used to have an expression as kids, “sticks and stones may break our bones but names can never hurt us”.

    The point I was trying to make, was that there should be no harm in using terms such as ‘Pikey’ to josh with each other in ironic banter without getting banned for it.

    i.e. suggesting for instance that say Hora was being a bit ‘pikey’ in some humorous situation.

    This came about because of the original suggestion that the forum was becoming boring precisely in the way that this thread has developed, in that the PC brigade weigh in with their ‘offended sensibilities’ and go into long diatribes as to how name calling is racist in virtually any circumstance.

    I’ve made my position, I have no respect whatsoever for the ‘Travelling Community’ and reserve the right to call them names and if that means that under law I should now be locked up then so be it, just as well I am anonymous.

    So that must also mean calling Scots Jocks, Irish Paddy, Welsh Taffy, and every other light humoured name calling falls within exactly the same categorisation, so if the mods were ever to let them get their way, then the place would be very boring, then no-one would come then the problem would be over.

    You need different opinions to create discussion, but it’s a sad day when folk are banned for them at the hue and cry of others, what happened to Nigel Farage in Scotland yesterday an exact example of lack of tolerance actually verging on racism if you think about it.

    I wonder if it’s because this place has a high percentage of Scottish posters, are they more intolerant than Southerners I wonder, are we Southerners more casually racist without realising it, who knows, but it does make the place interesting just as long as it is allowed to continue and one group prevented from dominating as they appear to be at the moment.

    I’ve said enough on the subject and will try and bow out now before I do actually ‘offend’ anyone for real.

    binners
    Full Member

    This has all become very negative. What it needs are some positive, uplifting stories about traveling folk, to debunk the myths and expose this racism (fascism? or is that too far?) for what it is! Finally!

    Has anyone got any links, or can just recount some positive personal experiences about them helping old ladies across the road, rescuing kittens from trees? Or their many charitable works in the wider community.

    camo16
    Free Member

    Has anyone got any links, or can just recount some positive personal experiences about them helping old ladies across the road

    Johnny Depp. Chocolat. Nuff said.

    Now stop being racist everyone!

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    heads off to delete all the football and cricket threads

    well if the threads descend into arguments about how black players are ALL stupid , thick, lazy,criminals on the margins of society freeloading from us etc then you probably should /would. I mean one of “them” got arrested for gang rape this week – I think I should start a thread making a sweeping generalisation to the entire race based on this and then bask in your tolerance.
    Shall I try copying and pasting from here but just saying black [ or Asian or gay] and see what happens?

    in that the PC brigade weigh in with their ‘offended sensibilities’

    its a lame defence described to justify your views tbh
    If I was to express what I think of your views in a frank and open and honest manner i would also be hit with a banning but i dont call it PC gone mad etc

    very other light humoured name calling

    I will chip in for the taxi fare to see you employ your light hearted banter to a travelling community and watch as they laugh at your rapier like wit – they would find it funny would they

    perhaps i can send you to a gang area of america and we laugh as you light heartedly use the n word to them

    binners
    Full Member

    Cheers Camo. I felt positive it couldn’t all be this cliched nonsense about their propensity for breaking into sheds, fly-tipping, ripping off old ladies for shoddy tarmacking, robbing peoples vans or curling one off in the middle of public footpaths.

    There’s always 2 sides eh?

    camo16
    Free Member

    Yes, Binners, it’s true – factual evidence also of guitar riffing on quiet French rivers whilst wooing a Binoche. Well-rounded coverage of the traveller community, that.

    edlong
    Free Member

    i.e. suggesting for instance that say Hora was being a bit ‘pikey’ in some humorous situation.

    You’re deliberately not getting it, and you still haven’t explained how using “pikey” pejoratively is any different to using any other racial epithet. I’m assuming that you wouldn’t think it was acceptable to accuse hora of “acting like a ****”, would you? Could you explain why you think there is a difference? As I’ve posted a number of times now, you’re assertion that being a member of the Irish traveller community is a “lifestyle choice” is absurd and factually wrong.

    This came about because of the original suggestion that the forum was becoming boring precisely in the way that this thread has developed, in that the PC brigade weigh in with their ‘offended sensibilities’ and go into long diatribes as to how name calling is racist in virtually any circumstance.

    So, you complain that you might not be able to post something that others might find offensive, but you don’t think people should be able to post a contrary view and challenge you when you are allowed to? That seems a bit contradictory.

    You need different opinions to create discussion, but it’s a sad day when folk are banned for them at the hue and cry of others

    You seem to be looking for a problem that doesn’t exist. You’ve posted a number of things that some of us disagree with. Those posts are still there. You are still here. The people who object to what you have said have stated their objections. It’s a debate. No one seems to have been banned. As far as I’m aware no posts have been removed (and if any were going to be, my Shakoor Rana one would probably be higher up the list than any of your “pikey” comments). Not sure what the problem seems to be, unless you were hoping to get banned so you could consider yourself a martyr to political correctness?

    whitegoodman
    Free Member

    Junkyard – lazarus

    I will chip in for the taxi fare..

    Would you be so kind?

    Thanks, 70 quid should do it, I wonder if you could send it, Cougar will have the address just as soon as he’s finished cleaning the bike he’s going to send me…

    I’ll let you know how I get on, honest guv, could do your drive as well whilst i”m at it, I’ve got some tarmac left over from another job…

    grum
    Free Member

    I’ve worked with quite a few traveller kids at the community centre where I work and they’ve been perfectly friendly and polite and haven’t nicked anything. Unlike some of the other kids.

    Edukator
    Free Member

    Yup, we live in a bourgeois part of town with a model primary school. The authorities thought it the ideal place to send the children from traveling families. The families took an active interest in the school including a gypsy music concert at the school fête. I bought their CD as I’ll support any way they have of making money legally.

    It was great for my son’s education too. He learned never to leave his jacket unattended or it would disappear, only to lend things to kids that gave them back. To bring things home rather than leave them in his desk. That cheap stuuf is less likely to be nicked than nice stuff.

    It gave me the opportunity to get to know the headmistress too. I had to remind her of French law and that fining all the kids when school property was stolen was illegal.

    whitegoodman
    Free Member

    edlong – Member
    Could you explain why you think there is a difference?

    Because the term **** as well as being the description of an oil paint pigment, was an extremely unpleasant word to describe black people, black people will always be black, colour cannot be changed, being a ‘Traveller’ is a lifestyle choice and something not immediately apparent about a person, nobody has to be a Traveller, black folk have no choice, neither do short people, but that doesn’t stop them being called dwarves though does it?

    DezB
    Free Member

    I miss Jamie
    and TSY

    They were proper funny blokes with good taste in music and good bicycle riders (Well TSY is, Jamie probably.)

    Can’t imagine for the life of me what they could have done to offend anyone so far as getting banned for it.

    (Probably out of context with where this thread has gone, but it looked pretty boring from what I could see)

    deadlydarcy
    Free Member

    Jimmers isn’t banned DezzieBee 🙁

    He just doesn’t love us no more.

    edlong
    Free Member

    being a ‘Traveller’ is a lifestyle choice

    No. No it isn’t. I’ve already explained this a number of times and quoted case law on it. Being born into a travelling family, part of a travelling community, one that is ostracised by pretty much all of the rest of our society is not a lifestyle choice, it is their ethnic origin. People who are born into Irish traveller families but end up living in houses will, in my experience, still identify as Irish Traveller when asked their ethnicity, same as a Polish, Pakistani or Ethiopian immigrants will still identify as such regardless of whether they’ve married into a white, English household.

    Changing their lifestyle / living arrangements does not change who they are, or where they came from. You just might not notice that they are Irish Traveller stock if you don’t see them living in a caravan / fighting in pub / stealing / whatever other behaviour reinforces your prejudices.

    Skin pigmentation is but one indicator of ethnic difference.

    wrecker
    Free Member

    Irish is an ethnicity, irish traveller is not. It’s not necessarily a lifestyle choice, but it’s certainly not an ethnicity.

    grum
    Free Member

    The law disagrees wrecker.

    So, whitegoodman – previous forum name please.

    binners
    Full Member

    But some of the travelers in My Big Fat Gypsey Wedding lived in caaaaaaaahncil Haaaaaaaaaaarses. What do we have to call them then? We can’t call them chavs, even though there were a lot of tracky bottoms and gold sovereign rings in evidence, as that’s even more offensive. Householders perhaps? People?

    And some of them seemed to live in Strangeways, periodically. What do we call them then? They definitely weren’t doing any traveling then

    Its all SO confusing

    DezB
    Free Member

    Jimmers isn’t banned DezzieBee

    He just doesn’t love us no more

    Cheers for that. Can’t say I blame him 🙂

    What’s racist and what’s not. Now that’s boring!

    wrecker
    Free Member

    The law disagrees wrecker.

    We know what the law is though, don’t we? 😉

    edlong
    Free Member

    wrecker, I think you’re confusing ethnicity and nationality there mate.

    To be fair, there are plenty of debates in more serious fora than this around defining ethnicity, but Wikipedia’s got it pretty close to a working definition I’m happy with:

    Ethnicity or ethnic group is a socially defined category based on common culture or nationality. Ethnicity can, but does not have to, include common ancestry, appearance, cuisine, dressing style, heritage, history, language or dialect, religion, symbols, traditions, or other cultural factor. Ethnic identity is constantly reinforced through common characteristics which set the group apart from other groups.

    In my view (and the law agrees with me on this), Irish Travellers qualify. You will also find that most ethnic monitoring (e.g. those forms you tick a box on when you apply for a job) will include Irish Traveller as an option.

    Edukator
    Free Member

    When I’ve taught in schools it’s true that even second and third generation immigrant kids still identify themselves as Indian, Algerian or whatever, Edlong. Some had also gone “western” in attitudes and language and fitted in no problem. Some, however, spoke amongst themselves in their second language, evolved within their ethnic group and had a more confrontational attitude towards me. BTW if ever you teach kids that speak another language the first words of that language you hear and learn are the insults.

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    colour cannot be changed, being a ‘Traveller’gay is a lifestyle choice and something not immediately apparent about a person, nobody has to be a Travellergayer,

    Goes of to start thread on this feeling free to get the abuse out as it is a lifestyle choice 🙄

    Gypsy is legally a race they cannot stop being a gypsy you know this because people keep telling you this

    edlong
    Free Member

    binners

    They’re still Irish travellers, if they live in a house, just as you can live in England and still be African. It’s their identity, not merely a description of their habitation arrangements. I can appreciate how that’s not intuitive from the words, though.

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    Some had also gone “western” in attitudes and language and fitted in no problem.

    What sort iof cultural supremacy is this you are approving of ? the ones who become like you are ok?

    Some, however, spoke amongst themselves in their second language, evolved within their ethnic group

    You are in France arent you speaking to British folk about Britain ..can you not assimilate or something – Oh the irony

    BTW if ever you teach kids that speak another language the first words of that language you hear and learn are the insults.

    Well if you are a bad teacher that may well be the case it was not the first words I learnt

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    it was not the first words I learnt

    Did you have a bad teacher, too?

    😉

    binners
    Full Member

    In that case ‘travelers’ is a rubbish name, and they should have thought it through more thoroughly before settling on it. This wouldn’t have happened if they’d employed some management consultants, or even the odd focus group. Its just lazy!

    sputnik
    Free Member

    No, not just you Kevkevs, this place IS boring.

    grum
    Free Member

    Calling them ‘people’ binners? What a bizarre concept. 🙂

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    Did you have a bad teacher, too?

    😳
    Bugger one of my best/worst 🙄

    molgrips
    Free Member

    Some, however, spoke amongst themselves in their second language, evolved within their ethnic group and had a more confrontational attitude towards me

    Was it ONLY the immigrant kids that were confrontational towards their teachers?

    I cannot believe how people are trying to argue about prejudice from a position of prejudice.. it’s staggering. Get a grip people, some properly disgraceful attitudes on display.

    But some of the travelers in My Big Fat Gypsey Wedding lived in caaaaaaaahncil Haaaaaaaaaaarses.

    And one of them (in the episode I watched) had a regular job and didn’t want his customers to know he was a traveller.

    whitegoodman
    Free Member

    edlong – Member
    being a ‘Traveller’ is a lifestyle choice
    No. No it isn’t. I’ve already explained this a number of times and quoted case law on it. Being born into a travelling family, part of a travelling community, one that is ostracised by pretty much all of the rest of our society is not a lifestyle choice, it is their ethnic origin. People who are born into Irish traveller families but end up living in houses will, in my experience, still identify as Irish Traveller when asked their ethnicity

    In your experience? What is that then, you go round asking them do you? Nobody asked me, part of my family were Romany a while back I don’t identify myself as a traveller. Travellers that ‘go to brick’ their expression not mine, cease to be ‘Travellers’ they’re in the community, pay council tax, have their bins collected, their waste disposed of in a sanitary fashion rather than leaving it by the side of the road or in someone elses garden, it’s also wrong to label all Travellers Irish, that is a sweeping generalisation, if you lived where I live you’d realise, but you don’t, my town is full of gypsies from all over Europe.

    The law as it currently stands was varied by people like you, bleeding heart liberals who don’t happen to have a yard full of them living next door, London Metrosexuals, Cherie Blair and the like, they’re gone now and you wonder why bloody UKIP is on the rise..

    I have to go, it’ll be Goodwin next and I have work to do..

    Cougar
    Full Member

    there should be no harm in using terms such as ‘Pikey’ to josh with each other in ironic banter without getting banned for it.

    I wholeheartedly agree.

    There should be no harm in using those terms. Unfortunately, society would dictate that there is. So like it or not, if you use those terms people are probably going to interpret it as prejudice, because they’re generally intended to be pejorative when used. Try and use “****” or “faggot” ironically and see how far you get.

    The one that always staggers me is “****”. It’s a contraction of a country, the same as Pole or Scot. If ever there was a word that should be safe to use, it’s that. But it isn’t, its usage has been corrupted by rampant 80s racism.

    Words are funny things. To my mind, intent is far more important than language. Compare, as a random example, “wow, that shirt is a bit gay” and “you’re gay and all your lot should be round up and shot.” The former arguably could be viewed as homophobic, but it really isn’t; in that context it’s implying that your choice of attire is perhaps a little effeminate, there’s no malice intended. The latter, well, should speak for itself.

    I try and take this approach in moderation (and I’m speaking purely personally here rather than as representative of the team). I’ve seen this thrown back to us as “inconsistency” – people complaining that others get away with stuff they’ve had warnings or bans for – but I try to look at context and intent rather than blindly pulling the trigger every time someone says a controversial word.

    Not that I’m saying this now gives you all carte blanche to call each other names “ironically” or otherwise push the boundaries and take the proverbial; this is just my opinion, not policy.

    wrecker
    Free Member

    Ethnicity or ethnic group is a socially defined category based on common culture or nationality. Ethnicity can, but does not have to, include common ancestry, appearance, cuisine, dressing style, heritage, history, language or dialect, religion, symbols, traditions, or other cultural factor. Ethnic identity is constantly reinforced through common characteristics which set the group apart from other groups.

    Dressing style? 🙄
    Basically, any group who is different from……any other group can be labelled as an ethnic group? So, mountain bikers (being different to roadies) are an ethnic group. Oh, and so are roadies as they are different to mountain bikers. Goths and trendies are ethnic groups. Rugby fans and football fans are ethnic groups.
    Kind of demeans the term ethnicity IMHO.

    molgrips
    Free Member

    The law as it currently stands was varied by people like you, bleeding heart liberals who don’t happen to have a yard full of them living next door, London Metrosexuals, Cherie Blair and the like, they’re gone now and you wonder why bloody UKIP is on the rise

    Wow, you really know a lot about people, don’t you? I’m impressed with your understanding of the subtle nuances of human society.

    Look, there are a great many lawless traveller people. That’s not in dispute. So stop going on about it.

    Your big problem however is prejudice – that is, treating certain groups of people all the same. You’ve done it to the travellers, and you’ve done it to us too i.e . those arguing against you. It’s brainless and pathetic.

    Just for balance, I should point out that lots of crimes and burglaries are commited by non-traveller folk.

    edlong
    Free Member

    In your experience? What is that then, you go round asking them do you? Nobody asked me, part of my family were Romany a while back I don’t identify myself as a traveller. Travellers that ‘go to brick’ their expression not mine, cease to be ‘Travellers’ they’re in the community, pay council tax, have their bins collected, their waste disposed of in a sanitary fashion rather than leaving it by the side of the road or in someone elses garden, it’s also wrong to label all Travellers Irish, that is a sweeping generalisation, if you lived where I live you’d realise, but you don’t, my town is full of gypsies from all over Europe.

    The law as it currently stands was varied by people like you, bleeding heart liberals who don’t happen to have a yard full of them living next door, London Metrosexuals, Cherie Blair and the like, they’re gone now and you wonder why bloody UKIP is on the rise..

    Okay, I never said all travellers were Irish, it’s the example I’m choosing to use. If you’re going to suggest that there are other ethnic origins of gypsies / travellers who face discrimination, prejudice and ostracisation from “mainstream” society then you won’t find me disagreeing with you. Were you to point out that many of these communities (as well as plenty of non-traveller communities) choose to keep themselves separate from ‘mainstream’ society, then I’d agree with you on that too.

    BTW, if you’re going to speculate, inaccurately, about me personally, about where I live, the circumstances in which I come into contact with traveller communities or my political affiliations then I’ll continue to ignore it.

    binners
    Full Member

    Just for balance, I should point out that lots of crimes and burglaries are commited by non-traveller folk.

    Any evidence to support that Molly? It sounds like a sweeping generalisation! 😉

    BTW, if you’re going to speculate, inaccurately, about me personally, about where I live, the circumstances in which I come into contact with traveller communities or my political affiliations then I’ll continue to ignore it.

    You sound French to me. And probably a bloody communist. Am I right?

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