I don’t think Fred will ever come back, not even under an assumed name. Oh no that’ll never happen.
I doubt they will ever let him back and having seen STW argues i cannot blame them
TJ? I think his treatment on here was pretty shameful actually.
He was a tit at times but he was harmless. he had no malice in him and he was surrounded by goading trolls who were full of malice. On his last thread I said exactly the same thing 3 pages earlier and then TJ said it and they all descended to attack him. TJ insists one member was also banned at this time but he is still here patronising us.
He did not help himself but what we did was shoot the victim not the bullies and they only removed [some of]the goading bullies after a forum response and not all of them.
TSY _ Honestly i have no idea why he was banned from here but it appears it was from a throwaway comment on twitter rather than what he did on here. This place is also much poorer [ and way less funny] without him – I cannot see any reason at all as to why he was banned and have never seen one given
As for the effect – it is certainly better for the absence of big hit athons [ of which I was involved] but it is also blander and a lot less interesting as those folk were clever and entertaining… as well as sometimes bonkers
When the forum was asked who they would most like to meet
TJ and Fred won by a long margin read into that what you will
I suppose like parents they cannot be seen to back down and overall it has been positive i would say but it may be worth restricting the hammer and seeing how they respond- how many years on are we and still the forum “grieves” for its fallen comrades 😛
It seems to me that people either leave or get banned because they either don’t want to or can’t abide by the rules
Some manipulative people use the rules to their advantage and use polite and moderate language in order to provoke and elicit responses. One can then stand around looking all innocent and the lecture folk on obeying the rules sometimes even years later . Its a subtler form of trolling but it was effective in getting at the target from what I saw who was then of course blamed for it all, by the perpetrator, for lacking self control. It was like provoking your sibling to get them told of by your parents or a teacher whilst still maintaining your innocence and blaming them. This was done by grown ups 🙄