The OP was absolutely right to report the woman
Yes he was. Which he did before he ever posted here.
and the piss-takers on here ought to be ashamed of themselves
Should we though?
What was the purpose of the OP if not to invite a pile on to some anonymous woman, with no opportunity to defend herself for her, seemingly reprehensible, behavior.
It wasn’t a request for advice, and nothing anyone said here would affect the outcome of the scenario. It was a judgemental shout of “BUNDLE!”
What was that if not bullying?
Scorn is an unpredictable beast and , if you invite it into your house, you shouldn’t be surprised if it bites you too.
Also, he called me Percy, so probably deserves everything he gets.