Hey, there is a mammaTJ on that thread…is that where he’s gone?
I spoke to the kids neighbours last night, who are friends of ours (they have kids and have been getting fed up with him ringing the bell constantly). They confirmed their one of their kids was bitten by their dog, and there is now way we should let our kids into their house. The kids dad is OK, but his mum is a scumbag. They didn’t think there was any abuse or serious problems, apart from the mum not having any social skills.
It’s interesting that one of them overheard a conversation where my lad was apparently politely explaining he couldn’t come to the BBQ on Sunday, and the boy got aggressive and started calling my lad names. He then came round to me and said my lad was being horrible to him…at which point I relent and invite him to the BBQ.
I’m thinking politely limiting his time he can come round to maybe once a weeknight and once at the weekend, and seeing how that goes.