As above, really.
I’m pretty sure back a few years, maybe two or three, nearly everyone’s posts to FB were springboards for discussions and chat. Most people would post things that they thought were interesting or funny or something and then we’d all talk about it as comments on the original post, digressing and debating as we saw fit.
Now it seems to me that it’s become different in at least two ways: Likefarming and Posession. Allow me to elucidate…
Likefarming – people post things as status updates, seemingly with the sole purpose of attracting ‘Likes’, comment is discouraged or ignored and especially any dissent or comment that questions the poster about the subject, or, give an alternative view.
Possession – what people write on their wall is becoming a projection of the image that they choose to create. Usually in an attempt to put-forward a sanitised, or [more often] cooler/more successful/more important view of themselves to the world. Again, writing anything that doesn’t further this cause is a surefire way to be ignored, deleted or grumbled about via PM!
Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t think I’ve turned into a rude asshat who rubs people up the wrong way [and certainly off FB I seem to be in good stead with most of my long-term friends], I mean I really feel the boundaries have shifted under me.
I’ve always been open online about my flaws as well as my strengths, and have made a very strong link between my real and my online presence [x/gofastertripes is nearly always me, everywhere], maybe I’m just a bit unusual in that respect?
Thoughts? Is it only me? Are people mixing-up FB and LinkedIn user modes? Is this the inevitable result of the always-connected world where the online presence becomes as important as the offline one, but, crucially, easier to manipulate?