If it was Rob’s idea/will etc. then fine but a. it wasnt and b. its not really the way i saw him. if the kids want somthing light hearted, i think they will be in for a shock however everyone dresses.
i wouldnt even ask, but its playing on my mind to the point im considering avoiding the crem. i can do the ‘celebrate his life’ approach, but bright colours and funerals just isnt me, closest my wardrobe will provide is a bright(ish) tie. Hawaian shirt, surely a charity shop will have something,
and no tie under a dark suit is my current plan
thanks for the condolences all