Ok… that went well.
Never got a chance to speak to him yesterday so had a chat today about not legally being able to take any money off me for the holidays.
He was fuming and said it’s morally wrong and couldn’t believe I would stoop so low after all they have done for me.. I reminded him I had 11 years loyal service and hard work behind me at the company plus been off twice with work related stress and depression. I agreed it’s morally wrong but legally there isn’t a thing he can do, and I certainly can’t afford to loose £400 at any time of year let alone at Christmas.
He said it’s on my conscious but if that’s the way I want to play it then fine, he said people have always paid back holidays they have taken but not accrued and I said that’s their fault for not checking the legality of what he is doing. Then he basically told me to leave. Which I did.
I would rather have left on better terms but I’m only getting what I’m legally owed so I don’t feel guilty st all.
Thanks to all those who provided info. I would have never realised all this if I hadn’t been pointed in the right direction.