You do see some drivel in these threads but whoever wrote ”bibs probably too hot” needs to be introduced to their arse and elbow.
OP you are clearly a bit of a self conscious girly so just go with something straightforward and decent value.
Dhb is good kit and when you do hanker after something with a bit more style it mix and matches well with more £££ italian stuff as the colours and branding are discrete.
But at the end of the day no one really gives a **** amaxingly normal people get the idea that people on bike wear Lycra like rugby players wear rugby shirts and you put trunks on to go swimming.