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The single most important component on a bike is the tyres so pick them well and look after them. A few PSI can change the characteristics of a bike, and bad tyres can make any bike feel terrible.
If you consistently break wheels and frames, unless you’re riding world cup DH for a living, it just means you’re a poor rider who can’t ride with any finesse.
If you have to drive to a ride and the total time getting there and back, including packing, unpacking, cleaning up kit and any other faffing, is more than the time spent riding you are doing things very wrong indeed. Ideally aim for 1 hour riding for every half hour travelling.
Ultimately, cycling is great, but it’s not quite as great as running.