I tried that. Bloke I just started dating but had been friends with for ages got a call from an ex saying she was 3 months pregnant, after we had been dating for a month. Stood by him for 2 years of hell she put us through – it had to be her that went to family events and me that was left out – and when it started getting better and the future looked more rosy he told me I had never mattered to him and why would he want me if he had a child?
Nope, no one with kids. Too much pain.Posted 8 years agojulianwilsonMember
Gizzard Puke – Member
Me and my willy used to get into all sorts of trouble until I discovered that a side affect of anti depressants was zero sex drive……everybodies appy!!
another side effect of some of them (paroxetine especially IIRC but I work in kiddie mental health now so sex doesn't really come up that often..) is that you last a lot longer when you do. Do it, that is. You could be making that special someone at least 30% happier! 😉Posted 8 years ago
optimism? i've never heard it called that before.
Mignighthour, your lack of wanting/looking for anything will mean it will happen when you least expect it, it will be even more special because of that, reguardless of the whether it's sexual, platonic or just gaining a soul mate.Posted 8 years agosamuriMember
imagine what you could achieve if you were celibate and actually wanted no more to do with it. Most blokes (and lots of women's) waking thoughts are peppered with sex, constantly… I should think if we all followed midnight's example we'd have invented a cure for cancer by now.Posted 8 years ago
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