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  • Catholic church and child abuse.
  • roper
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    ….I would be baiting, and that would be bullying.
    Now, since ad hominem 'arguments' seem to be the order of the day on this thread, I find your position, together with the positions of such obvious intellectual heavyweights as Lifer and GW, hideous for their vitriol and lack of understanding.
    Your collective misappropriation of history, psychology, and sociology – not to mention theology – is unbecoming of a rational species.

    I couldn't agree more.

    BermBandit
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    For being born into a Western Catholic Family I pretty much seem to be responsible for every evil in the world. Oh well Im not going to worry about it too much.

    Is this a new form of the Nuremburg Defence….. I was only follwing Gods order as given on Earth by his appointed representative Der Pope?

    Get real man, the simple fact is that the CC is a morally bankrupt organsiation, and to choose to continue to passively support its unbelievable evils is to actively engage in the commission of those self same evils. Or do you think millions of Catholics turning their back on the religion publically stating their reasons would have no impact on the way the franchise is run?

    konabunny
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    It's a lot easier to prosecute paedophiles and take steps to minimise their operation than it is to stop global warming.

    Yes or no? If no – why?

    Hold on, what's the question?

    Lifer
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    roper – Member

    ….I would be baiting, and that would be bullying.
    Now, since ad hominem 'arguments' seem to be the order of the day on this thread, I find your position, together with the positions of such obvious intellectual heavyweights as Lifer and GW, hideous for their vitriol and lack of understanding.
    Your collective misappropriation of history, psychology, and sociology – not to mention theology – is unbecoming of a rational species.

    I couldn't agree more.

    Perhaps you could explain what I don't understand then?

    barnsleymitch
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    "Demonstrate to me that I am wrong. That's all you have to do and you can continue to be as vituperative about it as you like – it doesn't bother me. Is your position so weak that all you have is expressions of hurt?"
    Where exactly did I say I was hurt? you're obviously determined to make a point here, but what that point is, I'm not really sure. You're far more rabid in your condemnation of my religion (and yes, I'm being careful to say 'mine' rather than 'others') than I am of your belief system – do you really feel that I'm going to be brought round to your way of thinking? You're perfectly entitled to think and believe in whatever you want. I'll even stand by your right to critisise my faith / beliefs, if that's what you want to do – as I said before, live and let live.

    konabunny
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    Top Vatican officials — including the future Pope Benedict XVI — did not defrock a priest who molested as many as 200 deaf boys, even though several American bishops repeatedly warned them that failure to act on the matter could embarrass the church, according to church files newly unearthed as part of a lawsuit.

    The internal correspondence from bishops in Wisconsin directly to Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, the future pope, shows that while church officials tussled over whether the priest should be dismissed, their highest priority was protecting the church from scandal.

    BermBandit
    Free Member

    I think I'm going to become a Gary Glitterist….. its less distasteful!

    grumm
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    Mr Woppit, stop being such a cock please. Your hectoring stance does no-one any favours.

    barnsleymitch – do you not feel it calls into question the legitimacy of the entire catholic church when the spiritual/moral leader and many other senior figures have been shown to be complicit in child abuse?

    MrWoppit
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    you're obviously determined to make a point here, but what that point is, I'm not really sure.

    Religion proagates itself by the brainwashing and indoctrination of children, placed there by the parents.

    ou're far more rabid in your condemnation of my religion (and yes, I'm being careful to say 'mine' rather than 'others') than I am of your belief system

    Atheism is not a "belief system".

    – do you really feel that I'm going to be brought round to your way of thinking?

    Not unless you become de-programmed from the indoctrination that has chained you to your belief. The first step in this is to deal with the argument rather than engage in avoidance.

    I'll even stand by your right to critisise my faith / beliefs, if that's what you want to do

    I do not need your permission.

    Religion propagates itself by the brainwashing of children, placed there by the parents.

    Yes or no? If no – why?

    hora
    Free Member

    I think a splinter-church is long overdue. Surely certain Catholics must be thinking its leadership is rotten. How many HAVENT been uncovered?

    MrWoppit
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    Mr Woppit, stop being such a cock please. Your hectoring stance does no-one any favours.

    The usual word is "strident". I'm just typing words. Would you prefer it if I plastered little smiley faces over everything or obscured the text with "please don't be offended but" or "I'm only saying this" or other such fluffy reassurances?

    Look – 😆 😆 😆 8) 😀

    Try to imagine that I'm speaking in a polite, sotto voce tone with a friendly smile on my face.

    O.K now?

    barnsleymitch
    Free Member

    Mr Woppit – I'm not 'indoctrinated', thanks all the same. You know nothing about my life, let alone the lives of my parents. My dad is dead now, but I'm sure he'd be pissing himself laughing about all your talk of 'brainwashing', especially as you're so insistent on quoting Richard Dawkins at every opportunity. Now, I cant carry on voicing my disgust at Ratzinger and his pals, can I? And I'm not about to recant my faith based purely on your repetitive arguments, am I? So where do we go from here?

    molgrips
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    Dear dear me. Some fine closed-mindedness on this thread.. Mr Woppit I am looking at you!

    You seem to think that the search for answers in life is simply about what created the world or what happens when we die. An embarassing and intellectually feeble position for a thinking adult I would say, something I would expect from an emerging adolescent.

    The reason I say that it because the existence or otherwise of God is largely academic, since it's unprovable either way. Religion is *really* about a doctrine and morals, and a code by which to live one's life. Now most people need this; you either get it from a religion or from the generally accepted ideals of your society. In your case those are basically the same as religious ideas anyway for historical reasons. The only difference is the idea of critical scientific thought, but that in many ways only tries to answer the most basic questions.

    Other people are just as intelligent as you but they see the world differently. Maybe isntead of ranting at them to change their minds, you might actually take the time to learn about their point of view. And you have to be open minded about it…

    Or, to put it another way, your juvenile rantings give atheists a bad name, so take it easy!

    molgrips
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    Would you prefer it if I plastered little smiley faces over everything or obscured the text with "please don't be offended but" or "I'm only saying this" or other such fluffy reassurances?

    Hehehe.. human communication is a very subtle thing, I guess taht's something else you need to learn about 🙂

    MrWoppit
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    I have quoted Richard Dawkins once.

    You may express your disgust at Ratzinger and his gang of abusers as much as you like – you don't need my permission.

    Please deal with my proposal – Religion propagates itself by the indoctrination of children, placed there by the parents.

    On your more specific point – if this general point does not apply to you – perhaps you would like to tell me how you bacame a cultist?

    Smiley face, moderate voice, friendly smile, etc etc etc.

    BigDummy
    Free Member

    I'm not about to recant my faith based purely on your repetitive arguments, am I? So where do we go from here?

    I think he ties you to a tree, and shoots you repeatedly with a crossbow while you look towards heaven with a beatific expression playing across your faintly effeminate countenance and little rivulets of blood trickle over your well-toned torso. 😉

    deadlydarcy
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    I was brought up (or brainwashed) a Catholic. Then once I was old enough to think for myself, I kinda made up m mind that there "might" be a god (all this brainwashing takes a while to unindoctrinate) and then after another few years decided it was all bollocks and that I was then an atheist.

    However, the likes of Mr. Woppit, who, despite being told he is sounding like the the most enormous cock (you have to imagine me saying that…how do you put it…how do you justify sounding like a cock…oh yes, there it is…strident!!…yes, stridently) on the thread today, is convincing me that maybe Catholicism might be a good idea after all…

    STFU dude…you're giving atheists a bad name.

    Junkyard
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    whoppity why the pleasure in being so offensive it does just make you look like a c0ck even to those of us who are aetheists want to put some distance between your view and our own.

    Religion proagates itself by the brainwashing and indoctrination of children, placed there by the parents.

    ah another of your open and genuine questions again again it reads like you would listen to the answer it really does.

    I suspect further discussion of this with you would be like discussing matters of faith with a devout person. Utterly pointless you are both beyond persuassion and at times you also appear incapable of rational discourse due to your hatred. Shame that no point holding on to hate according ot the Buddha 😉

    barnsleymitch
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    I've been a member of this forum for about three years now. Today is the first time I've ever mentioned the fact that I'm a catholic, and I only did so in order to say that (a) I disagree with the churches apparent lack of concern regarding the actions of some of its priests, and (b) that not all catholics blindly accept it's doctrine. To say I wish I'd have kept my mouth shut would be an understatement.
    BigDummy – if you replace the phrase 'well-toned' with the phrase 'well-rounded', you'd be much nearer the mark!

    MrsToast
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    "Every Catholic is responsible."
    How does that make any sense? I've already stated my position on this, and I will not accept that simply by being a member of the catholic church I am in some way condoning the acts and omissions of other members. By that argument, would you also state that all muslims are responsible for 911, etc? This is a long standing problem that has long been ignored /condoned by the vatican, which desperately needs addressing, now.

    I think the problem a lot of non-Catholics have is that the Roman Catholic Church has such a rigid heirachy, with the infallible Pope at the head. I find it a bit odd that a Catholic can be excommunicated or put under interdict for supporting a woman's right to abortion, or engaging in pre-marital sex, but not for repeatedly and systematically covering up paedophile priests.

    I think that's why people brand the Catholic Church as a whole, because the top layers are rotten. The question is, if you're on the bottom level of the heirachy and you question the moral authority of the Church leaders, are you still really a Catholic?

    It's a shame – when I was little, I used to be taken to Catholic Church by my best friend's family when I stayed over for the weekend. I wasn't a Catholic, so I found it a bit overwhelming – why are they wearing those outfits? Why are half of the hymns and readings in Latin? Oooh, and what's with all the sparkly gold stuff? But everyone was incredibly welcoming, but not in a JOIN US sort of way. And my friend's parents remain to this day some of the most awesome people I know – whether that's because of their religion or despite of it, I don't know.

    It must be incredibly difficult for Catholics to try and reconcile their faith and their dedication to their church with the shadier aspects of the organisation. I guess they can't win – if they do question it, they get people like me saying, "But doesn't that make you a rubbish Catholic if you don't have blind faith in the Pope?", and if they don't then they get labelled mindless indoctrinated drones. And sometimes both! 😛

    Possibly the only solution is for Catholics to go on strike/wee in the Pope's shoes/own the Church's leaders with some bombers.

    BigDummy
    Free Member

    To say I wish I'd have kept my mouth shut would be an understatement.

    If I may say so, your decency and patience on this thread is remarkable.

    MrWoppit
    Free Member

    You seem to think that the search for answers in life is simply about what created the world or what happens when we die.

    That is your perception and of course, you're welcome to it. I'm not searching for answers however, merely asking for a response to a proposal.

    what happens when we die

    We die.

    The reason I say that it because the existence or otherwise of God is largely academic

    No, it's simply a matter of evidence. There being none, however, puts the weight of responsibility on the shoulders of those who propose god's existence. I am quite happy to stop being an atheist and accept that a god exists. All anyone has to do is demonstrate it.

    Religion is *really* about a doctrine and morals, and a code by which to live one's life.

    Not so. Religion is founded on a belief in a god. Or gods. Without this, it wouldn't be a religion.

    Maybe isntead of ranting at them to change their minds, you might actually take the time to learn about their point of view.

    I fail to see how anything I have written is a "rant". I think this is a projection on your part. I am actually trying to learn the point of view. I have done nothing but ask for it for some time now, but all I get back are either confused critiques like yours, or expressions of hurt feelings and accusations of bullying.

    Shall I repeat the proposition again, and would you and other religious apologists care to actually deal with it in a meaningful exchange? At all?

    MrWoppit
    Free Member

    Religion proagates itself by the brainwashing and indoctrination of children, placed there by the parents.

    ah another of your open and genuine questions again again it reads like you would listen to the answer it really does.

    It is not a question, it's a proposition.

    Which nobody has yet dealt with – I am incapable of "listening" to something that has not been "said"!

    Would it be any easier for you if I preceded it with "Do you think that…"?

    MrWoppit
    Free Member

    I think he ties you to a tree, and shoots you repeatedly with a crossbow while you look towards heaven with a beatific expression playing across your faintly effeminate countenance and little rivulets of blood trickle over your well-toned torso.

    That made me chuckle. Brilliant. 😆

    barnsleymitch
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    On your more specific point – if this general point does not apply to you – perhaps you would like to tell me how you bacame a cultist?

    Smiley face, moderate voice, friendly smile, etc etc etc.

    You know Mr Woppit, you really are an objectionable tw*t, but as youre so insistent, here goes. My Dad came over from Ireland when he was in his twenties – he never spoke about it, but I got the impression it had something to do with the troubles. He had been raised a catholic, but was non-practising and was often (especially when he was pissed) quite outspoken in his condemnation of organised religion. He then met and married my Mam, who was a devout and practising catholic. Cue a lifetime of 'interesting' debate. None of my siblings were brought up as catholics, it was something we never really gave much time to, to be honest. When I was born, I was premature, weighed two pounds and wasnt expected to survive, which allowed my mam the excuse to have me baptised as a catholic – you can imagine how delighted my dad was! This may not fit in with your theory of brainwashing and indoctrination, for which I can only apologise. I keep my beliefs very much to myself, I dont follow doctrine blindly, and I dont judge others according to my own faith. You can call your own way of thinking whatever you want to call it, but you should perhaps try exercising a little less eagerness in condemning others. 😉 (that smiley was supposed to be ironic)

    Peyote
    Free Member

    Religion propagates itself by the indoctrination of children, placed there by the parents.

    To an extent I suppose it does, although it isn't a simple "yes" or "no" question. I'm sure many relegious folk have been converted later in life. My parents weren't Christians until their mid-thirties, so they can't have been indoctrinated. I was a Christian until my late teens (10+ years ago now I hasten to add!), I think some may say I was indoctrinated, but I reckon that word is a bit loaded. Although I can't remember being given a choice of relegions (or atheisim for that matter) so maybe…

    What is certain is that in the case of my parents and me the above asertion is incorrect. Interesting debate argument though!

    MrWoppit
    Free Member

    barnsleymitch – Member

    On your more specific point – if this general point does not apply to you – perhaps you would like to tell me how you bacame a cultist?

    Smiley face, moderate voice, friendly smile, etc etc etc.

    You know Mr Woppit, you really are an objectionable tw*t, but as youre so insistent, here goes. My Dad came over from Ireland when he was in his twenties – he never spoke about it, but I got the impression it had something to do with the troubles. He had been raised a catholic, but was non-practising and was often (especially when he was pissed) quite outspoken in his condemnation of organised religion. He then met and married my Mam, who was a devout and practising catholic. Cue a lifetime of 'interesting' debate. None of my siblings were brought up as catholics, it was something we never really gave much time to, to be honest. When I was born, I was premature, weighed two pounds and wasnt expected to survive, which allowed my mam the excuse to have me baptised as a catholic – you can imagine how delighted my dad was! This may not fit in with your theory of brainwashing and indoctrination, for which I can only apologise. I keep my beliefs very much to myself, I dont follow doctrine blindly, and I dont judge others according to my own faith.

    Interesting. So, if you don't mind me asking (see what I did there?) if your own induction into cultism wasn't from the result of parental subduction, why did you become a catholic in particular and a christian in general?

    dickydutch
    Full Member

    Lynch mob mentality at its best. You can always rely on STW for the righteous few to shoot down anyone who dares voice an opinion slightly awry from their own!

    MrWoppit
    Free Member

    It's O.K., I can take it. I'm a big boy… 😉

    barnsleymitch
    Free Member

    Catholicism wasnt something I chose, as my last post clearly stated. My christianity, faith, whatever you want to call it, is my own business, which appears to be of more interest to you than it does to myself – why is that, exactly?
    I believe there are other aspects of my life (twenty odd years as a psychiatric nurse, the adoption of two brilliant kids from a less than ideal background, an extensive period of work in orphanages in Romania, for example) that are far more interesting and worthy of discussion. Religion – why is that more important?

    dickydutch
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    I wouldn't worry Barnsleymitch. You're onto a loser here I reckon.

    vinnyeh
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    Go to say Woppit, you're vitriol does you no favours. Do you have similar issues with Germans and Japanese of a similar age? Or those raised behind the Iron Curtain?

    You preach (and that is the correct word) intolerance of those who you accuse of intolerance.

    MrWoppit
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    barnsleymitch – Member

    Catholicism wasnt something I chose, as my last post clearly stated. My christianity, faith, whatever you want to call it, is my own business, which appears to be of more interest to you than it does to myself – why is that, exactly?
    I believe there are other aspects of my life (twenty odd years as a psychiatric nurse, the adoption of two brilliant kids from a less than ideal background, an extensive period of work in orphanages in Romania, for example) that are far more interesting and worthy of discussion. Religion – why is that more important?

    If you don't want to talk about it that's fine. There's no rule that says you have to.

    As a psychiatric nurse however, what do you make of my general point regarding the indoctrination of children? Bearing in mind that you don't have to join in that discussion if you don't want to, although I'd be interested to hear why you would not want to put me in MY place with a convincing argument, given the opportunity…

    muggomagic
    Full Member

    I thank Jesus for bank holidays.

    hora
    Free Member

    Why is contraception evil BTW. Where in the Bible does it say this?

    dickydutch
    Full Member

    Probably because he knows he doesn't have to reason with someone who is unable to take on board a viewpoint different to his?! I'm sure that would put me off wanting to argue. Seems pointless does it not?!

    barnsleymitch
    Free Member

    "As a psychiatric nurse however, what do you make of my general point regarding the indoctrination of children? Bearing in mind that you don't have to join in that discussion if you don't want to, although I'd be interested to hear why you would not want to put me in MY place with a convincing argument, given the opportunity…"
    Because, as you've already inferred with that last statement, there cannot be a 'convincing argument' based purely on faith, as well you know. You've already placed yourself in the position of my intellectual superior, so please, be happy with that, and leave me the **** alone.

    MrWoppit
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    vinnyeh – Member

    Go to say Woppit, you're vitriol does you no favours. Do you have similar issues with Germans and Japanese of a similar age? Or those raised behind the Iron Curtain?

    You preach (and that is the correct word) intolerance of those who you accuse of intolerance.

    Not at all. I have never preached intolerance of religion. Quote me, I dare you. I do however, uphold my right to argue against it. I am perfectly happy to support the right of anyone to believe in whatever they want. I don't see however, why a conversation about religion shouldn't be as robust as a conversation about anything else. You don't find such a touchy level of sensitivity being demanded in conversations about football, or the weather, or favourite pop groups for instance. I can't see why religion has to be put in a special category, frankly.

    barnsleymitch
    Free Member

    And hora – stop bloody trolling, you whey faced poltroon.

    Lifer
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    vinnyeh – Member
    Go to say Woppit, you're vitriol does you no favours. Do you have similar issues with Germans and Japanese of a similar age? Or those raised behind the Iron Curtain?

    You preach (and that is the correct word) intolerance of those who you accuse of intolerance.

    Another straw man – you can't choose your nationality.

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